About the Author:
Christopher Lowell is the host of The Christopher Lowell Show (formerly Interior Motives), the most popular daytime show on the Discovery Channel. His eclectic background as an actor, artist, classical pianist, creative director, and teacher of interior design has given him both the skills and the authority of someone who has truly paid his creative dues. On his show, Christopher brings his practical experience and talent to people looking for problem-solving ideas. He delights in teaching them to decorate their homes with fabulous projects and improvements that are achievable, affordable, and fun. Loyal viewers tune in twice a day and still can’t get enough of Christopher; their response has inspired a line of decorating products and custom paint. As Christopher would say, “Love that!”
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The Creativity Chip
What convinces us that we're not creative beings and that we lack imagination? Is it ego, the yearning to be praised, and the judgment of others? After all, we're told not to even try unless we are so obviously good at something that we'll be instantly rich and famous. "Get a real job" is the common refrain. At least that's the message we get from other people and from that two-headed dragon, the media.
Now, let's be clear. The world that the media continually shoves in our faces is real. But it's lopsided. If we see only one aspect of our world, we 're bound to be influenced by that point of view. And what we decide to believe becomes our reality. In fact, any time thousands of people buy into a belief, a new reality is created. The more people who share it, the more powerful and sustaining that reality becomes. Conflict occurs when people cannot agree on the rules. That's simple enough, right?
Two of my heroes, Will and Ariel Durant, devoted their lives to proving this very point. In more than a hundred published works they examined the sweep of world history and the cycles we continue to repeat. Then they took everything they had learned and distilled it down to one small book, The Lessons of History. One of these lessons is that mass beliefs can build empires in one century, then destroy those empires in the next. So if we agree that the mass belief system creates a reality, then doesn't it stand to reason that by changing the belief system, we change the reality? The answer is yes. So what does this have to do with creativity?
You Are Creative, Too I've said it before and I'll say it again. We are all creative. It's innate, like breathing. The body doesn't get its inspection sticker without it. There is actually a creative mechanism literally built into our brains. Like a microchip. Honest to God!
So where is this creative chip? Well, it doesn't blink in your navel, it doesn't beep going through customs, and you won't find that it came loose and got sucked up in the vacuum. But it's there, crushed flat as a pancake maybe, and stone cold, but it's ready to be rescued. Our poor creativity! We pile upon it the burdens of the world, as well as our self-judgments and those of others.
I believe creativity was bestowed on us as an antidote to stress. But our fear of being creative blocks it. So ironically, the very thing built in to reduce stress is actually stressing us all out. "So, if that's true, who got mine?" you might ask. "Somewhere in Silicon Valley there's a talent chip with my name on it," you jest?
Wait a minute, talent is a different thing. Talent is what you earn after being creative over and over again. It's a question of practice making perfect. But even that doesn't guarantee you'll accomplish anything.
Let me give you an example. One summer, a friend invited me to stay in his wonderful house. It was stocked with artist's supplies, a fabulous studio, a potter's kiln, and a grand piano. I was in heaven-at least for the first week. I'd sit at the piano to compose, only to realize that the vision running through my head wasn't music, it was a painting. Off to the studio I went. Halfway through a painting, I realized that the form on the canvas was better realized in three dimensions. Out came the clay. Now the music came to my mind, and I found my way back to the piano. The summer was winding down and so was I, after amassing two dozen half-finished projects. When the homeowner returned, I opened the door completely frazzled. With a knowing smile, he said, "Had enough?"
He then taught me something that I have never forgotten. He said, "Having talent is one thing, but without a clear dream it is completely useless. And, nothing is sadder then creativity without focus." I had been completely self-indulgent and, although I had released a ton of creativity, I never gave it a place to land long enough to do anything worthwhile. I thought that sheer talent and good tools were all that was needed. What I had not done was clarify the dream before bringing it into reality.
Another year, while working in summer-stock theater, I met a veteran actor who had once been famous worldwide. He had accepted a small part in a Chekhov play that seemed far below his once-celebrated stature. During rehearsal I asked him, in essence, what happened? This is what he told me:
There was a time in my life when all I could do was dream about being an actor. It was at the epicenter of every thought. Finally the day came where I landed my first part. My performance won rave reviews and I was catapulted into stardom. But fame became my motivation rather than the dream. And before I knew it, my career slowly went on automatic pilot and stayed that way for years. My performances began to loose their passion. I had become a caricature of myself. The passion for my work was replaced with the paranoia of being a has-been. Somewhere along the way, I forgot how to dream. It wasn 't until I hit bottom, when I felt I had nothing to lose, that I finally surrendered my ego, said good-bye to my fear, and allowed myself to dream again. It was my dreams that saved my life.
Here was a man who had once been in full possession of his dreams. But due to ego and fear, he had lost focus. Fear took over the dream.
To change the point of view of others and fly in the face of an accepted reality is no small task. To go up against a mass belief system means you need to have both a powerful dream and thoughtful plans to execute it. Well, having said that, what about our smaller dreams? What about the dreams that have nothing to do with leading a nation? What about those little subconscious private and personal desires like, I'd like a better life, to be happier, to feel safer, to have a hand in my own destiny? Compared to a dream that could change the course of history, these small dreams seem rather-well, reasonable. But wait a second here. If they're that reasonable, how come there aren't thirty million Americans having amazing lives, being supremely happy, fearlessly safe, and creating their own extraordinary futures?
Could it be that even these small personal dreams also require a measure of conviction, faith, and courage to carry them out? Well, who wants even that much responsibility? Who'll risk even that much for a dream? Who's got even that kind of time? The good news is "I've got a dream." The bad news is "So, what do I do with it?"
In medieval times, war may have surrounded many castles, but the moat and the drawbridge kept harm beyond the gates. Inside was a safe, self-contained world inhabited by all those who shared a single belief-a family, if you will, of like-minded people dreaming about a better world. This is the sense in which your home should be your castle. It's the place away from the Sturm und Drang of reality. Your walls keep out the sights and sounds of the world around you. It's your haven to dream, to create, to experiment, and to be at peace. At least it's supposed to be.
For many of us, the home was once a dream place-an icon of unlimited possibilities. But as the home changed, the environment did not. Home stopped being a place to dream or a mechanism of support. It no longer supports possibilities. It's a daily reminder that dreaming has ceased and the walls are closing in. And for many of us the home is simply a motel: a place where you check in for the night. It's just another pit stop in the rat race, or a convenient place to stash your stuff.
Why? Once again, it's all about fear. We're afraid we don't have the money or the time, and that we wouldn't know what to do to our homes even if we could. It just doesn't mean enough to risk the effort. And to top it off, to make a home a support mechanism to nurture who we want to be means we have to figure out what that is. How, pray tell, do we do that? Overloaded and overwhelmed, we retreat. We have decided that to dream isn't worth the effort. We decide that it's easier to accept the humdrum reality around us instead.
This is where your home can provide the most constructive and meaningful focus. Making your home a place that will support and nourish you-one that reflects your heart's desire-can be the most significant thing you do for yourself and your family. Because whether we like it or not, we are how we live. Everything we surround ourselves with is a direct reflection of who we were and who we currently are. In fact, so powerful is the correlation between one's mental interior and one's home interior that some of us are afraid to invite people over for fear that we might expose our real selves. Many a sitcom episode has followed this very premise.
Your home is indeed the perfect metaphor and the ideal arena to get in touch with your personal creativity. It's not about decorating, painting, or buying stuff. A sofa or a lamp in and of itself won't change your life. The meaning behind it could, however, change everything. It's not about your fear of color; it's about fear of choosing. It's not about finding one's personal style; ultimately, it's about finding one's self. And since the home, the place where you live, should be the very center of your universe, it only makes sense to begin there.
It is within your power to make the environment you call home not just an accommodation, but a place that feeds the very essence of who you want to be. You have the opportunity to create a new reality for the future.
Home is where the dream is. And if your home is indeed a mirror of your life, then doesn't it follow that by changing your mental interior, you can change your surroundings? And, conversely, if you change your home interiors to reflect what you want to be, will your mental interior change too? The answer is a resounding yes.
Okay, so what are dreams, anyway? And why would I want to get trapped in the drama of having one of them in the first place?
Excellent questions!
A dream, in its infancy, is simply an idea. Gosh, we have lots of ideas ...
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