The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander: From Preschool to High School, How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence

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Drawing on her decades of work with troubled youth and her wide experience with conflict resolution and reconciliatory justice, bestselling parenting educator Barbara Coloroso offers a unique, practical, and compassionate book destined to become a groundbreaking guide to this escalating problem.

Coloroso helps readers recognize the characteristic triad of bullying: the bully who perpetrates the harm; the bullied who is the target (and who may become a bully); and the bystander -- the peers, siblings, or adults who donít act to defuse the situation.

Readers learn:

  • What bullying is and what it isnít; the three kinds of bullying; and the differences and similarities between boy and girl bullies
  • Why contempt, not anger, drives bullying
  • Why hazing is a form of bullying and how cliques feed the problem
  • The differences between teasing and taunting and between flirting and sexual bullying
  • How to read the subtle clues that a child is being bullied
  • Four abilities that protect your child from succumbing to a bully
  • Seven steps to take if your child is a bully
  • How to help the bullied child heal; effectively discipline rather than punish the bully; and increase a childís ability to take positive action
  • Why teaching a "code of compassion" is a more powerful antidote to bullying than conflict resolution techniques
  • Why zero tolerance policies can equal zero thinking
  • How to evaluate a schoolís antibullying policy and much more
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    About the Author:

    Barbara Colorosois the author of the international bestseller Kids Are Worth It! She is an internationally recognized speaker on parenting, teaching, positive school climate, nonviolent conflict resolution and grieving. For the past thirty years, she has enriched the lives of hundreds of thousands through her speeches, seminars, and award-winning audio and video programs. Her uniquely effective parenting strategies were developed over the course of her years of training in sociology, special education, philosophy, and theology, and they have been field-tested through her experience, as a mother of three grown children, classroom teacher, and University instructor. She lives with her husband in Littleton, Colorado.

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