"A book that will touch your heart, bring you to tears and heal your life. It is a book of truths because it contains the only thing which reveals the truth, a story. Everyone suffers loss so have the wisdom and courage to read, learn, feel and heal. I think so highly of this work that every one of our children will receive a copy. I receive many books few get that high a rating."--Bernie Siegel, MD, author of
Love, Medicine & Miracles:Prescriptions For Living"With simple eloquence and clear compassion, Attig topples the myth that grieving those who die requires letting go, and instead explores the sustaining connections that survive physical separation. This book is an invaluable guide to all bereaved persons who strive to restore wholeness to a love strained by loss, and who seek practical and spiritual counsel on how to find hope and even growth in the wake of desolation."--Robert A. Neimeyer, Ph.D, author of
Lessons of Loss: A Guide to Coping and editor of Death Studies"When those we love die, our love for them does not. This compassionate book lifts up this simple truth and, in doing so, affirms and heals. Mourners will identify in particular with the many real-life stories. Truly,
The Heart of Grief is a treasure trove of healing wisdom and guidance for anyone who grieves."-- Dr. Alan Wolfelt, author of
Understanding Grief: Helping Yourself Heal and Director of the Center for Loss and Life Transition
"This book offers a powerful message to those who are grieving--"You do not have to let go"--that we can continue to love, remember and celebrate the lives and legacies of those we lost. If I were in the midst of grief, I hope someone would offer me this powerful, hope-filled book."-Kenneth J. Doka, Ph.D., Professor of Gerontology, The College of New Rochelle and Senior Consultant, The Hospice Foundation of America
"Tom Attig has long been interested in the concrete stories of individual grievers. In
The Heart of Grief he retells a multitude of those stories in order to develop sensitive insights for bereaved persons and guide them in constructive ways. A masterful achievement!"-Charles A. Corr, Professor emeritus, Southern Illinois University
"A brilliant sequel to Solomon's
Song of Songs with exquisite story-images, thoughtful and sensitive wisdom resulting in the life-affirming message that 'love is stronger than death'"-Rabbi Earl A. Grollman, D.H.L., D.D., and author of
Living When a Loved One Has Died"Tom Attig brilliantly illuminates the phenomenon of lasting love. Where other authors have only theorized, he operationalizes and concretizes; where others have merely offered philosophical perspectives, he delineates specific courses of action to enable healthy, continuing, and life-affirming connections with those who have died."-- Therese A. Rando, Ph.D., author of
How To Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies and Clinical Director of The Institute for the Study and Treatment of Loss, Warwick, Rhode Island