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Your game plan in meeting topless dancers is to establish a friendship and conversation. Get to know the girl first. And you must act different than the other guys who come in the club. Most men act like a bunch of horny animals around the dancers. They show the girls no respect, proposition them for sex, and treat them like whores. I can assure you the dancers are turned off by this behavior. They just put up with it because it's part of the job.
The key to successfully meeting topless dancers is to not come on to them all hot & horny and wanting to jump their bones. Become their friend and exude warmth and friendliness. The worst thing you can do istreat them like a sex object. Make her feel special and appreciated.
Believe me, you will stand out in her mind as a special guy that's different than the rest of the men who come in the club. After all, the name of the game is to get her truly interested in you and attracted to you. OK, let's get started on how to successfully meet topless dancers:
Buying Drinks
This is the preferred method for meeting topless dancers. Offer to buy her a drink instead of a table dance. When you buy a dancer a drink she will at least feel obligated to sit with you and talk. This is the key.
Establish contact as possible - laughing, talking, flirting, having a good time with you. You've got to establish a friendship first and keep her mind off of making money off of you and treating you like a customer. Always buy drinks instead of table dances, if possible. If you just buy a dance, she's not likely to stay and talk to you very long because she will want to leave and go make some money. At least by buying her drinks she is more inclined to stay with you so you can start putting your moves on her.
At some point after you buy her drinks, she's going to hit you up for a table dance. Don't hold this against her, this is how she makes her money. Here's what your reply should be: "There's nothing more I would love than to have you dance for me but I do not want to be just another customer, I'm more interested in getting to know you better and become your friend. Look, I know the ropes of your business and I understand this is how you make your money, so if you need to leave and make some money I understand. Why don't you come back over here with me and party after you make some money?
If she does come back over to you to be with you, things really look promising. This shows she's interested in you. If she doesn't come back, this may indicate that she's just interested in making money and not you.
Frequenting Topless Clubs
So, how often should you go to topless clubs to try and score with the dancers? Here's the schedule I recommend: Go twice a week for a couple of weeks. Then take a break from the topless club scene for 2-4 weeks. What's the advantage to this schedule? The reason being, that there's a frequent turnover of dancers in this industry. By taking breaks, you will see fresh new faces and bodies in the clubs. You'll be exposed to new dancers to try and score with.
Another advantage to taking breaks is to keep from getting burnt out on the topless club scene. It can be pretty hard on your wallet, too, if you go to topless clubs all the time.
One last comment: Don't wear out your welcome by going to the same club over and over again. The girls get used to seeing you all the time and your presence becomes a little stale and some dancers lose interest in you.
When and What Time to Go to Topless Clubs
There are certain days of the week to go to topless clubs and times to show up that can make a difference in your chances of scoring with topless dancers. First, let's start with the best days to go topless clubs. Any night can be a good night just by luck and circumstances. In general, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday are the best nights to go. Usually Sunday and Monday nights are not good nights and pretty dead. Weekends can be overcrowded and a younger rowdy crowd. The dancers can be consumed with making money as fast as they can and not spend much time with you or give you their undivided attention. I've always had my best luck during the week at the second tier clubs described in Chapter One. It's not as crowded as the weekends generally and you get more personal attention from the dancers.
Now, let's talk about the best times to go to topless clubs to increase your odds of picking up dancers. Try to arrive between 10:30 p.m. and midnight - even later is better. Why? Because later in the night lots of these girls have made some real good money and are in a mood to party. Plus, since they have already made some great money for the night, they are less pressured to hustle you for money and inclined to spend more time with you.
Here's another factor in your favor by showing up later in the night. After midnight a good number of the married men have left the club to return home to their wives. This is to your advantage because there will be a lot less men in the club, thus less competition and a favorable ratio of women to men. Always try to hang around until closing time. This creates opportunities for you to take her out for breakfast when she gets off or to just go party over at your place or hers.
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