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Lucky That Way: Rediscovering My Father's World.

Gerhardt, Pamela.

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ISBN 10: 0826220045 / ISBN 13: 9780826220042
Published by University of Missouri Press, Columbia, 2013
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184 pages. Softcover. New book. MEMOIRS. "I decide that from now on we should listen to him. His lip may be deflated and his left side paralyzed, but he knows. And he has made terrible mistakes. But he knows. He knows. We are lucky that way." Lucky That Way, a nuanced, richly engaging memoir, chronicles the joys and tribulations of a daughter who rediscovers her father as he nears the end of his life. Ernie Gerhardt, an artist and teacher, is largely estranged from his five children, but when he suffers a debilitating stroke, his daughter Pamela must fly to Las Vegas to tend to him. When she arrives to find Ernie newly and shockingly fragile, she is hit by an unexpected wave of tenderness. As she watches over him in intensive care, she recalls turning points in her family historyÑthe early death of her mother and her father's turn to heavy drinking--and reflects on the idiosyncrasies that make an imperfect and unique family, on what it means to become old, on what happens when parents are no longer the caregivers but the cared-for, and on how a family copes with their responsibility to the elderly. Written in a crisp, engaging style, the story is less about the drudgery of finding the right mix of medicines, at-home caregivers, and rehabilitation centers and more about the emotional ramifications of caring for the sick under the weight of sometimes flawed attachments. People make mistakes, grow old, get sick, and pass on from this world. Lucky That Way examines the irritations and comforts of contemporary family bonds. Gerhardt sifts through the complicated, multi-layered relationships for both wry comedy and high drama and records a string of triumphs and mishaps as Ernie and his five adult children struggle to manage his life and find meaning before their time runs out. The emerging theme of imperfect humans struggling with life's great mysteries will strike a chord of recognition with the tens of thousands of Baby-Boomers and Gen-Xers who are currently facing similar circumstances with their elderly loved ones. Pamela Gerhardt's heartfelt story about a family coming to terms with their aging father's illness and imminent death takes readers on an emotional roller coaster that highlights love, loss, humor, and sadness. Pamela Gerhardt is an instructor of Narrative Nonfiction in the Professional Writing Program at the University of Maryland and has also done freelance writing for the Washington Post, Dallas Morning News, Houston Chronicle, and other publications. She currently lives near Washington D.C. with her husband and two children. "Rich, artistic, vibrant, mesmerizing, masterful. I loved everything about Pamela Gerhardt's wise and complex memoir."ÑSheri Reynolds, author of The Rapture of Canaan Lucky That Way won the 2014 award for best memoir from the American Society of Journalists and Authors. (Key Words: Pamela Gerhardt, Memoir, Caring For The Elderly, Caring For The Sick, Childern As Caregivers). Bookseller Inventory # 84583X1

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Title: Lucky That Way: Rediscovering My Father's ...

Publisher: University of Missouri Press, Columbia

Publication Date: 2013

Binding: Softcover

Book Condition:New

Book Type: book

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While selling a futon at a yard sale in Washington, D.C., 45-year-old college professor Pamela Gerhardt listens to her voice mail and finds that her quirky 79-year-old father, Ernie, has suffered a stroke while vacationing in Las Vegas, more than 2,000 miles away. They have not spoken to each other in seven years. The news sparks a journey - literally and figuratively.

Pam (along with her four siblings) begins to rebuild a once sparkling relationship with Ernie and to help him recover - an uneasy task, especially when the father is an eccentric (albeit entertaining) abstract artist with a penchant for chain-smoking, drinking, and irreverent jokes.
This captivating, sometimes roller-coaster narrative set in Las Vegas, Missouri, South Carolina, and Florida highlights the importance of compassion, devotion, humor, and - ultimately - forgiveness and redemption.

Lucky That Way, a nuanced, richly engaging memoir reflects on the idiosyncrasies that make an imperfect and unique family, on what it means to become old, on what happens when parents are no longer the caregivers but the cared-for, and on how a family copes with their responsibility to the elderly.

Written in a crisp, engaging style, the story is less about the drudgery of finding the right mix of medicines, at-home caregivers, and rehabilitation centers and more about the emotional ramifications of caring for the sick under the weight of sometimes flawed attachments.

Gerhardt sifts through the complicated, multi-layered relationships for both wry comedy and high drama and records a string of triumphs and mishaps as Ernie and his five adult children struggle to manage his life and find meaning before their time runs out. The emerging theme of imperfect humans struggling with life's great mysteries will strike a chord of recognition with the tens of thousands of Baby-Boomers and Gen-Xers currently facing similar circumstances with their elderly loved ones. Pamela Gerhardt's heartfelt story highlights love, loss, humor, and sadness. 

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Lucky That Way is Pamela Gerhardt’s heartfelt story about a family coming to terms with their aging father’s illness and imminent death, taking readers on an emotional roller coaster that highlights love, loss, humor, and sadness.

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