She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner) - Softcover

Kerner, Ian

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0060538260 ISBN 13: 9780060538262

Publisher: William Morrow Paperbacks, 2009

Synopsis

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." Most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. But in the world of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to sex therapist (and evangelist of the female orgasm) Ian Kerner, oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay: simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again. Can you say "viva la vulva"?

Fun and informative, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring that sexual fulfillment is mutual.

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Review

"When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue," writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored "the oral caress" as a way of compensating for his "sexual inadequacies," and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred "the way of the tongue," reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, "the powerhouse of pleasure," with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from "foreplay" through "coreplay" to "moreplay." A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on "mouth music," including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and "melts blissfully before your eyes." "The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough," writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner! --Joan Price

From the Inside Flap

"Men, while still lame, can no longer hide behind the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring a woman--the facts are all here in this complete guide."

--Dr Drew Pinsky, co-host of Loveline

"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!"

--Playgirl

"This well-written, hands-on, fluff-free book puts the 'big penis=big orgasm' theory to rest once and for all. No man or woman should be without it."

---Michele Weiner-Davis, M.S.W., author of The Sex-Starved Marriage

"You've all heard about 'lunch at the Y.' Well, this book will make it a feeding frenzy."

--Sue Johanson, host of Oxygen's Talk Sex

About this edition

• Publisher: William Morrow Paperbacks
• Publication date: 2009
• ISBN 10: 0060538260
• ISBN 13: 9780060538262
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 240