For Better or for Worse: Divorce Reconsidered - Hardcover

Hetherington, E. Mavis; Kelly, John

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0393048624 ISBN 13: 9780393048629

Publisher: W W Norton & Co Inc, 2002

Synopsis

A groundbreaking study of the psychological and social effects of divorce, drawn from close to three decades of research, explores and discusses a wealth of relevant issues such as how women and girls experience divorce differently than men and boys, and reveals that the aftermath of divorce can be a pathway to healing and fulfillment.

About this title

About the Author:

E. Mavis Hetherington is professor emeritus, Department of Psychology, University of Virginia. John Kelly is a writer in New York.

From Publishers Weekly:

University of Virginia psychology professor Hetherington and writer Kelly offer a "primer" on the "postnuclear family experience." After studying more than 1,400 families and 2,500 children over three decades, Hetherington sees divorce as part of a series of "interconnected transitions" in life rather than a one-time event. While destructive in the short-term, divorce can also be positive, creating new opportunities for long-term personal growth. The authors begin by looking at the character of the marital relationship, which is like a bank account: each partner makes "deposits" of strengthening factors (like mutual support and intimacy) and "withdrawals" that debilitate the relationship. The emotional base of the marriage erodes if there's an imbalance of "deposits" and "withdrawals" for too long, resulting in divorce. Depending on their "protective" factors (maturity, autonomy) vs. "risk" (impulsiveness, antisociability), ex-partners will weather the stormy first year after divorce with varying degrees of resilience. After six years, most are happier. While the general picture is fairly positive, the detail can be unnerving. Children may be adjusting, but after six years, a quarter of them see their noncustodial father once a year or less. One fourth of ex-spouses are still having conflicts after six years. Most stepfathers give up the struggle to connect with resisting stepchildren after two years. With these darker realities in mind, the authors offer a series of practical suggestions at the end of each chapter. (Jan. 21)Forecast: Given the vast number of people divorcing all the time, the market for this jargon-free book should be huge. But its scholarly bent (aimed at its primary audience of upper-level college students and counseling professionals) and its claim to be "the most comprehensive study of divorce in America" may turn off some.

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About this edition

• Publisher: W W Norton & Co Inc
• Publication date: 2002
• ISBN 10: 0393048624
• ISBN 13: 9780393048629
• Binding: Hardcover
• Number of pages: 320