Now That You Know: What Every Parent Should Know About Homosexuality - Softcover

Fairchild, Betty; Hayward, Nancy

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0156677024 ISBN 13: 9780156677028

Publisher: Harvest Books, 1931

Synopsis

If the coming out process is difficult for gay people, it is often equally difficult for their parents. Confusion, anger, and fear frequently cause fathers and mothers of gay men and lesbians to disavow, strike out against, and even resent their children. For many parents, a child's coming out feels like the ultimate rejection--not only of their dreams and hopes but of their own heterosexuality. In Now That You Know: A Parent's Guide to Understanding Their Gay and Lesbian Children, Betty Fairchild and Nancy Hayward--the mothers of, respectively, a gay man and a lesbian--have charted the rough seas that almost every parent of a gay person travels. Fairchild and Hayward presume that homosexuality is a positive good, and that it is willful ignorance and homophobia that are moral wrongs. They also believe that families can and should love all members and that it is distraught or confused parents (not their gay offspring) who must change. Mixing common sense with a firm sense of social justice and love, the authors systematically address almost all of the problems faced by parents of gay people. Answering questions on religion, AIDS, health, children, alternative families, and sex, they make the complicated gay world--often a nightmare vision for "just out" parents of gays--not only manageable but happy and nurturing. --Michael Bronski

Edition details

• Publisher: Harvest Books
• Publication date: 1931
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0156677024
• ISBN 13: 9780156677028
• Binding: Paperback
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 228