How to Stop Looking for Someone Perfect and Find Someone to Love - Hardcover

Sills, Judith

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0312396260 ISBN 13: 9780312396268

Publisher: St Martins Pr, 1984

Synopsis

Finding love is easier than you think, and more within your control than you realize! Written by a clinical psychologist, this practical and friendly guide to finding the right mate is filled with proven strategies, expert advice, and exercises to help you clarify your dating priorities, stop inventing problems, and start seeking lasting love. Filled with wisdom, understanding, and warmth, this handy volume reveals the three "Golden Rules" of dating, ways to change your negative attitudes and expectations, the best model for choosing a mate, tips for screening strangers, and methods for identifying and evaluating sexual problems early in a relationship. Decide what qualities and characteristics in a mate are really important to you. Overcome obstacles like "the audience effect," which causes you to view people through others' eyes and "a fixed personal picture," which rules out potential mates based on certain attributes, and more.

About this title

From the Inside Flap

you're ready for the BIG relationship. You want to meet that certain someone and settle in for a long commitment. But there's no one out there, you say. Stop right there! Judith Sills, a practicing psychologist, will teach you to screen potential mates quickly and accurately, discover your relationship patterns and how and when to break them, and, most importantly, to rid yourself of destructive dead-end thinking forever.

Edition details

• Publisher: St Martins Pr
• Publication date: 1984
• ISBN 10: 0312396260
• ISBN 13: 9780312396268
• Binding: Hardcover
• Language: English
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 194