Embracing The Stranger: Intermarriage And The Future Of The American Jewish Community - Hardcover

Ellen Jaffe McClain

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0465019080 ISBN 13: 9780465019083

Publisher: Basic Books, 1995

Synopsis

McClain, a deeply committed Jew who married a non-Jew, argues vehemently that intermarriage does not necessarily spell the end of an individual's Jewish life--or the end of the Jewish community. Combining hard data, anecdotes and personal interviews, this eye-opening account reveals why Jews intermarry and what concerned Jews ought to be doing about it.

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McClain, a junior high school teacher in Los Angeles who has previously written a novel for young adults, presents an engaging, easy-to-read book about intermarriage full of insightful interviews with intermarried couples and Jewish organization figures. The author also draws upon her own experience in being married to a non-Jew, which provided the impetus for the book. McClain believes that, although Jews marry outside the Jewish faith at a high rate, this can be beneficial for the future of Judaism in America. Her controversial opinion is not widely shared. Nevertheless, she believes there is a renewed vitality in outlook toward Judaism in many of these intermarried families and that these couples should be treated in a more welcoming manner by the Jewish community. McClain also offers advice and a directory of key Jewish organizations that can be of help to intermarried couples and their offspring. Recommended for medium and large public libraries serving a diverse clientele.?Paul M. Kaplan, Lake Villa Dist. Lib., Ill.
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Widely regarded as the scourge of the Jewish community, intermarriage between Jews and non-Jews has few outspoken defenders. McClain counters the attacks on these unions as she issues a thoughtful plea for welcoming outsiders to the faith and strives to destroy the stereotypes many Jewish men and women have of each other. McClain finds considerable flaws in the gloomy 1990 National Jewish Population Study, which predicts eventual assimilation of American Jews, and asserts it is too early to discern how couples married so recently are raising their children. Besides criticizing the finger-pointing of such studies, McClain examines why some Jews neglect the community and faults uninspiring mainstream Jewish institutions and Jewish self-hatred. Her call for embracing Judaism while respecting individual marital decisions is clear and direct: "Just as many Gentiles through the centuries have been comfortable vilifying Jews as evil-minded, money-grubbing parasites, so have Jews become comfortable stereotyping those of us who choose to marry non-Jews as self-hating, anti-religious destroyers of our people. It has to stop." Aaron Cohen

Edition details

• Publisher: Basic Books
• Publication date: 1995
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0465019080
• ISBN 13: 9780465019083
• Binding: Hardcover
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 320