Adult Sibling Rivalry - Hardcover

Greer, Dr. Jane

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0517131234 ISBN 13: 9780517131237

Publisher: Random House Value Publishing, 1994

Synopsis

Explores how sibling rivalry affects adult life, showing readers how to recognize and confront issues of competitiveness, clarify and evaluate expectations, reconcile with a sibling, and identify the "invisible sibling" syndrome. Reprint.

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From Publishers Weekly

The sometimes companionable, often exasperating state of siblinghood is examined here with mixed results. Writing with freelancer Myers, Greer, a clinical social worker in New York and New Jersey, presents interesting, though not sufficiently developed concepts about the nature of this relationship: We expect ourselves and our siblings to be "good enough" but don't know what good enough means. We make others into "invisible siblings" and reenact old rivalries. We even replay the relationship our parents had with their siblings, according to the study. Why? There is no discussion here of psychodynamics, of inappropriate parental expectations, projection, identification, oedipal feelings and incest taboos, all of which might illuminate these problematic bonds. Nor do case histories from Greer's practice communicate the seething, disfiguring resentment that is the hallmark of rivalry. The way to resolve our conflicts is to understand and then deal with the problem, we are told--and useful ways of managing feelings are offered--but ultimately, this analysis, while suggestive, does not promote real understanding.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.

About this edition

• Publisher: Random House Value Publishing
• Publication date: 1994
• ISBN 10: 0517131234
• ISBN 13: 9780517131237
• Binding: Hardcover