Identifies the make-or-break experiences that lead to love that is real & strong & allows us to be true to ourselves, with rich & meaningful intimacy. Kirshenbaum presents the radical idea that you have to make mistakes before you can find the love of your life. This is where you do crazy things in the name of love & allow yourself to fall for all different kinds of men. These adventures give you a sense of freedom & knowledge about yourself & what you want out of life & love. Describes 7 more essential experiences that can mean all the difference between frustrating & fulfilling love. A series of questions & quizzes illuminates the path through the 8 passages toward a lifetime of love. Includes stories of real women.
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Mira Kirshenbaum is an individual and family psychotherapist in private practice and the director of the Chestnut Hill Institute in Massachusetts. She lives in Boston with her husband of thirty-two years. They have two grown children.
Cheerleading her readers through each page, Kirshenbaum believes that despite the embitterment caused by hurtful or unsuccessful love experiences, women should never settle for less than the best in their relationships. The result feels like a heart-to-heart gabfest with girlfriends, complete with casual language, self-disclosure, harsh truths and borderline-crude analogies. The anecdotes of women grappling with a variety of love and relationship problems are abundant enough to satisfy even the most avid relationship voyeur. With the use of many examples, Kirshenbaum illustrates eight "make or break experiences of love," offering diagnostic and prescriptive advice for each. This advice is clearly intended for the woman first and the relationship secondAshe is relatively quick to advocate dissolving a liaison and unfortunately does not specifically address the merits of remaining in a relationship for the sake of commitment. The common thread of advice running through her chapters is sound, however. Women should clarify their own desires and expectations for love, be honest about them with themselves and their partners and hold out for a partner who can meet their expectations. Above all, she emphasizes, the only requirement for experiencing true love is knowing and loving oneself.
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.
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