The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq - Softcover

Benedict, Helen

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0807061492 ISBN 13: 9780807061497

Publisher: Beacon Press, 2010

Synopsis

The Lonely Soldier--the inspiration for the documentary The Invisible War--vividly tells the stories of five women who fought in Iraq between 2003 and 2006--and of the challenges they faced while fighting a war painfully alone.

More American women have fought and died in Iraq than in any war since World War Two, yet as soldiers they are still painfully alone. In Iraq, only one in ten troops is a woman, and she often serves in a unit with few other women or none at all. This isolation, along with the military's deep-seated hostility toward women, causes problems that many female soldiers find as hard to cope with as war itself: degradation, sexual persecution by their comrades, and loneliness, instead of the camaraderie that every soldier depends on for comfort and survival. As one female soldier said, "I ended up waging my own war against an enemy dressed in the same uniform as mine."

In The Lonely Soldier, Benedict tells the stories of five women who fought in Iraq between 2003 and 2006. She follows them from their childhoods to their enlistments, then takes them through their training, to war and home again, all the while setting the war's events in context.

We meet Jen, white and from a working-class town in the heartland, who still shakes from her wartime traumas; Abbie, who rebelled against a household of liberal Democrats by enlisting in the National Guard; Mickiela, a Mexican American who grew up with a family entangled in L.A. gangs; Terris, an African American mother from D.C. whose childhood was torn by violence; and Eli PaintedCrow, who joined the military to follow Native American tradition and to escape a life of Faulknerian hardship. Between these stories, Benedict weaves those of the forty other Iraq War veterans she interviewed, illuminating the complex issues of war and misogyny, class, race, homophobia, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Each of these stories is unique, yet collectively they add up to a heartbreaking picture of the sacrifices women soldiers are making for this country.

Benedict ends by showing how these women came to face the truth of war and by offering suggestions for how the military can improve conditions for female soldiers-including distributing women more evenly throughout units and rejecting male recruits with records of violence against women. Humanizing, urgent, and powerful, The Lonely Soldier is a clarion call for change.

About this title

About the Author:

Helen Benedict, a professor of journalism at Columbia University, has written frequently on women, race, and justice. Her books include Virgin or Vamp: How the Press Covers Sex Crimes and the novels The Opposite of Love, The Sailor's Wife, Bad Angel, and A World Like This. Her work on soldiers won the James Aronson Award for Social Justice Journalism.

Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved.:

One: The Lonely Soldier

On a blustery night in March 2004, I joined a small crowd in New York
City to honor the citizens and soldiers who had died in the first year of
the Iraq War. Among us were children, Vietnam veterans, and a mother
whose young soldier son had just been killed; she held his wide-eyed
picture up throughout the vigil. Huddling together for warmth, we lit
candles and read aloud the names and ages of the dead. After each
name, a woman struck a huge drum, making a hollow thud that chilled
us more than any cold.
 
We began with the soldiers: Christian Gurtner, 19. Lori Ann Piestewa,
23. . . .
 
Once 906 American names had been read, a young man took the
microphone and read the names of some of the many thousands of
Iraqis who had been killed thus far: Valantina Yomas, 2. Falah Hasun,
9 . . . infants and teenagers, mothers and fathers, toddlers and grandmothers
 
It took at least an hour to read all those names, and afterwards the
young man explained why he knew how to pronounce them: “I’m a
soldier just back from Iraq,” he said, “and we’re being used as cannon
fodder. We’re being sent into war without body armor or decent vehicles
to protect us. And most of the people who are dying in this war are
civilians.”
 
I was taken aback. This was the first anniversary of the U.S. invasion,
and it was unpopular for anyone to criticize the way the war was
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being run, let alone someone who had fought in it. Surely this young
soldier was going to be called a traitor by his comrades. So I began to
follow the other few veterans who were speaking out like him, curious
to see what they were up against, which is how I found army specialist
Mickiela Montoya and learned about women at war.
I first saw Mickiela in November 2006, standing silently in the back
of a Manhattan classroom while a group of male veterans spoke to a
small audience. Sentiment had shifted by then, and a poll had just been
released showing that the majority of soldiers were now highly critical
of why and how the war was being fought. Among women serving in
Iraq at the time, 80 percent said they thought the United States should
withdraw within a year, and among men, 69.4 percent agreed.1 Wondering
how this young woman might feel, I approached her. “Are you a
veteran too?” I asked.
 
“Yes, but nobody believes me.” She tucked her long red hair behind
her ears. “I was in Iraq getting bombed and shot at, but people won’t
even listen when I say I was at war because I’m a female.”
 
“I’ll listen,” I said. And soon I was listening to all sorts of female
soldiers from all over the country who wanted to tell their stories.
In the end, I interviewed some forty soldiers and veterans for this
book, most of them women. The majority had served in Iraq, but a few
had been deployed to Afghanistan or elsewhere. I included a variety of
ranks, from privates up to a general; all military branches except the
Coast Guard; and soldiers on active duty as well as those in the reserves
and the National Guard. I thus use the word soldier to mean members
of the Marine Corps and air force as well as the army.
 
Some women had only positive things to say about their service: it
had given them a responsibility they never would have found in civilian
life, and they were proud of what they’d accomplished. This was particularly
true of soldiers in medical units. Captain Claudia Tascon of
the New Jersey National Guard, who immigrated to the United States
from Colombia at age thirteen and served in Iraq from 2004 to 2005,
was one of these. “Because I’m more in the curing business than the
killing business, I’ve seen the good of what we’ve done. We had dentists
and doctors put themselves in harm’s way to help kids in villages. I was
in charge of a warehouse, supplying medical and infantry units all over
northern Iraq, and I was also supplying the Iraqi army, who had nothing
for wounds except saline solution. So I can’t say anything bad about the
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war.” Then she added, “In the civilian world, you’d never have a twentythree-
year-old in charge of people’s lives and millions of dollars worth
of supplies like I was.”
 
Marine Corps major Meredith Brown, who comes from New Orleans,
was so proud of her service in Iraq that she said she would go back
in a flash if called, even though she’d had a child since her return. “If I
got killed out there, my son would understand that I’d died to protect
him and other Americans from terrorists coming to our backyard.”
But most of the Iraq War veterans I talked to were much more ambivalent.
Some praised the military but considered the war disastrous,
others found their entire service a nightmare, while yet others fell in
between.
 
From all these women, I chose to feature five whose stories best
reflected the various experiences of female soldiers in Iraq, although I
have included the stories of others as well. As different as these soldiers
are, they all agreed to be in this book because they wanted to be honest
about what war does to others and what it does to us. Above all, they
wanted people to know what it is like to be a woman at war.

About this edition

• Publisher: Beacon Press
• Publication date: 2010
• ISBN 10: 0807061492
• ISBN 13: 9780807061497
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 280