Women and Self-Help Culture: Reading Between the Lines - Softcover

Simonds, Wendy

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0813518342 ISBN 13: 9780813518343

Publisher: Rutgers University Press, 1992

Synopsis

Simonds writes about women's approach to self-help reading. She is most interested in self-help books directed primarily toward women. These books offer advice about managing relationships, enhancing sexuality, developing self-esteem, becoming assertive, and improving our spiritual lives. Simonds looks at hundreds of books, including such well-known ones as Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique, Robin Norwood's Women Who Love Too Much, Harold Kushner's When Bad Things Happen to Good People, and Alexander Comfort's The Joy of Sex. Even though many critics see these books as anti-feminist drivel, their continued success says something about American women's search for meaning. Simonds examines the social construction, cultural consumption, and transmission of ideas about gender and the self. She wants to know why such books are appealing and what their readers are doing with them. 

Readers' own responses to self-help books, though varied, do fall into patterns. A few readers reject the messages found in these books but most affirm the content. They look for validation of how they already feel and for answers to their problems. Traditionally women care for others; reading self-help books gives them a chance to nurture themselves.   

Simonds explores the cultural messages offered by self-help books. What do the books preach about blame, feminism, and individualism?  She looks at sex manuals which advise their readers not only to learn techniques but also to improve their self-identities. She looks at self-help books that deal with the larger arena of relationships between men and women. Authors see such relationships as plagued by nearly insurmountable problems. Men are obstacles that women must work around as they attempt to forge meaningful relationships in what is characterized as a war zone.

Simonds discusses the place of self-help books in relation to other forms of culture.  She views self-help books as an example of the didacticism that pervades women's experiences. In her words, "self-help culture is our culture."  The same therapeutic culture that characterizes self-help books can also be found in magazines, soap operas, and talk shows. These books are buyable therapy. In a sense, self-help books commodify readers by urging them to make themselves into objects of analysis and improvement. Such books try to give their readers an understanding of existing problems, but they also help create the problems.

Are self-help books politically conservative or liberating?  There is no easy answer. The authors of self-help books seek answers through individual change, not social change.  They reinforce the traditional dependence of women on authority. But at the same time Simonds argues that self-help books can validate caring, and serve as a form of women caring for women. These books shift the emphasis of caring, as they encourage their readers to care less about their involvements with others and more about their own personal development, but for the ultimate goal of achieving better connections with others.

About this title

From Publishers Weekly

This study is more academic and less pointed than Wendy Kaminer's recent I'm Dysfunctional, You're Disfunctional: The Recovery Movement and Other Self-Help Fashions. Unlike many critics, Simonds, a sociologist at Emory University, acknowledges some value in self-help books, as do the 30 women whose reading habits she studies. Though Simonds sometimes lapses into academic jargon, she also invokes academic research on women as nurturers to explain women's interest in self-help. She takes a broad view: after analyzing the spiritual and therapeutic quests these books represent, she looks at readers' letters thanking the authors of The Feminine Mystique and Women Who Love Too Much for assuaging their loneliness. Surveying 28 years of self-help unisex bestsellers, she discerns two categories: those that recommend rational thought and those that emphasize personal growth. Books aimed at women, she notes, portray their subjects as both omnipotent and powerless. Though Simonds suggests that such books do not always encourage self-blame nor do they necessarily block societal change, she concludes that they offer an illusory cure for problems that are ultimately not individual.

Copyright 1992 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

From Library Journal

Simonds (sociology, Emory Univ.) presents a cultural and sociological exploration of self-help books and their impact on the lives of women. Through interviews with self-help readers, authors, and editors, she closely examines the cultural, religious, and gender messages found in these titles. Simonds concludes that the genre's continued success stems from women's constant search for identity and confirmation. Critiques of some of the more successful offerings over the past 28 years, including Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique (1964) and Robin Norwood's Women Who Love Too Much ( LJ 8/85), are also provided. This thorough, scholarly study will be most valuable in exhaustive sociology or feminist collections. Purchase where there is a demand.
- Linda S. Greene, Chicago P.L.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Edition details

• Publisher: Rutgers University Press
• Publication date: 1992
• ISBN 10: 0813518342
• ISBN 13: 9780813518343
• Binding: Paperback
• Language: English
• Number of pages: 286