Milk Teeth: A Memoir of a Woman and Her Dog - Softcover

Kahn, Professor Robbie Pfeufer

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0813543711 ISBN 13: 9780813543710

Publisher: Rutgers University Press, 2008

Synopsis

Dogs are the most popular pet in the United States and a beloved family member to many. As with a human baby, a puppy's innocent "wild" behavior can provoke unkind treatment. The source of this unfortunate but common reaction often lies in the pastùthe family history of the caretaker.

Written as a year-long journal, Milk Teeth chronicles sociologist Robbie Pfeufer Kahn's struggle to achieve a loving relationship with her black Labrador puppy, Laska. Mirthful, mischievous, intelligent, and strong-willed, Laska challenges her owner's attempts at leadership and affection. The puppy refuses pats, jumps up, and mouths with needle-sharp teeth. To her dismay, Kahn reacts with fear and anger, sometimes treating Laska roughly. Strangely, these encounters produce flashbacks from Kahn's diminished childhood andùwith the help of dog trainers, psychotherapy, and literature and theory from a variety of disciplinesùlight the way toward understanding her responses to the puppy. In time, Laska's sharp white teeth no longer serve as a metaphor for her character and she matures into a spirited, friendly dog. Kahn even reconciles with her parents from whom she has been estranged. Using her teaching, friendships, spiritual community, the natural world, and her grown son to keep herself rooted in the present, Kahn is able to explore her past.

Poignant, raw, and at times humorous, Kahn's narrative invites readers to become aware of unconscious cruelty and its sources, to cultivate kindness, and to apply these insights not only to themselves and other humans, but also to the animals who share our lives.

• Presents the darker side of the human/animal bond
• Speaks from both the victim and perpetrator perspectives
• Demonstrates the importance of social support during psychological crisis
• Includes journal entries

About this title

About the Author

Robbie Pfeufer Kahn is a professor of sociology at the University of Vermont. She is the author of Bearing Meaning: The Language of Birth, winner of the 1997 Jesse Bernard Award.

Review

"An urgent, courageous, and ambitious work." --Sue William Silverman, author of Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You

"This book is moving, haunting, revealing, and at times, gently humorous. It examines, in very personal, honest terms, how relationships with dogs can teach us about ourselves, especially those lessons we have been avoiding." --Leslie Irvine Author of If You Tame Me: Understanding our Connection with Animals

If one were interested in finding a gold mine of information about the psychological aspects of the human-dog bond, this would be the place to turn. However, it is much more. It is a treasury of fascinating anecdotes, observations, and some amusing and moving insights. --Stanley Coren, author of Why Does My Dog Act That Way?: A Complete Guide to Your Dog's Personality

About this edition

• Publisher: Rutgers University Press
• Publication date: 2008
• ISBN 10: 0813543711
• ISBN 13: 9780813543710
• Binding: Paperback
• Language: English
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 392