The Good Son: A Complete Parenting Plan - Hardcover

Gurian, Michael

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0874779855 ISBN 13: 9780874779851

Publisher: Tarcher, 1999

Synopsis

A best-selling therapist and educator offers a handbook for parents concerned with the development of moral and ethical values in boys from birth to the age of eighteen, discussing effective techniques and providing a resource list of effective books and films. 50,000 first printing.

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About the Author

Michael Gurian is a psychotherapist and bestselling author whose books include The Wonder of Boys and The Good Son. His work reflects the diverse cultures (European, Asian, Middle Eastern, and American) in which he lived, worked, and studied. He has taught psychology, religion, mythology, and literature at three American universities and at Ankara University in Turkey. He lives with his wife and two children in Spokane, Washington.

From Kirkus Reviews

A practical guide for parents in raising sons to become compassionate and responsible men. In calling for a ``moral and ethical revival in the raising of boys,'' therapist Gurian, the author of two prior books about raising boys, speaks to the concern of many that our culture is failing to develop character in its young males. After examining the gender differences in male brains, hormones, and social acculturation that place them at greater risk than females, he argues that boys need more structure, discipline, guidance, and training than is commonly provided. He then spells out the details in a ``Good Son Parenting Plan.'' The plan addresses the values of decency, fairness, empathy, self-sacrifice, respect, loyalty, service, responsibility, honesty, and honor. Each chapter tackles a stage of life: the age of obedience, comprising infancy, the toddler years, ages five and six; the age of convention: ages seven and eight, preadolescence, and prepuberty; and the age of moral intuition: puberty, the middle teens, and preadulthood. Instructive stories from a variety of sources open and close each chapterfables and myths from India, Hawaii, and East Africa, as well as personal experiences of parents and teachers. In each chapter the author traces the intellectual, emotional, and moral development occurring in that stage, and considers issues most likely to arise. He includes practical advice on dozens of issues from bedtime, television, and bullying to peer pressures, sex, drugs, and alcohol. Two features especially helpful to parents are ``The Range of Normal'' and ``Rules to Live By,'' in which Gurian sums up what is to be expected in a boys life at each stage. Appendices provide not only reading lists for parents but a selection of age-appropriate books and movies for stimulating moral growth in boys. A well-planned program whose nonsectarian, nonpreachy approach makes it an appropriate guide for all parents concerned about the moral development of their sons. -- Copyright ©1999, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved.

About this edition

• Publisher: Tarcher
• Publication date: 1999
• ISBN 10: 0874779855
• ISBN 13: 9780874779851
• Binding: Hardcover
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 400