Constructing a New Normal: Dealing Effectively with Losses Throughout Life - Softcover

Lambin, Helen Reichert

 
9780879465360: Constructing a New Normal: Dealing Effectively with Losses Throughout Life

Synopsis

With wisdom born from her bumps and bruises, Helen Lambin knows what it means to "start slowly and increase the range" when it comes to grief and trandition. And she knows what it means to live life to the fullest, wherever we may be in grief and transition. If you don't know Helen personally when you open this book, you will soon feel that you and she are the kind of friends who can share fears, failings, faith, dreams, and an ordinary grace-filled life.

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About the Author

Helen Reichert Lambin grew up in Iowa, which will always be a part of her, but has lived in the Second City for decades. It was here that she met her beloved husband, Henry Lambin, now deceased, the inspiration for the book, Death of a Husband. She has been wife, mother of three (Joe. Rosemary, and Jeanne), mother-in-law or almost (Suzette, Skip and Scott), and grandmother of one, Jessica. She has also been pet companion, and writer (all willingly), worker (willingly and otherwise), and widow (very unwillingly). The worker part has included secretarial, copywriter, casework, program coordinator/event planner, and occasional film extra. Her writings have centered on loss and transition during times of difficulty and change. This is probably because she would like to find some salvage value in experiences she d much rather not have. Currently, while working at recovering from a badly broken arm and subsequent surgery, she rather crossly asks what she is supposed to learn from this mess and would prefer easier ways to learn whatever it is. She has not written about this yet because writing is, alas, physically challenging right now. When life is more normal, ordinary, and delightfully dull, she likes to garden, read, knit, travel, learn bits of languages and write. In addition to Death of a Husband, Helen is the author of short articles on transition and loss, baseball, and travel, and the books From Grief to Grace and Prayers for Sleepless Night. And she spends a lot of time awake.

From the Back Cover

FOREWORD

SOONER OR LATER: Facing Losses Throughout Life

LOSS AND TRANSITION: Remembering and Response

'TIS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED: Love and Loss in General

LAMENTATION IN RAMAH: Loss of a Child

HOW DO I LOVE THEE? Loss of a Spouse or Life Companion

OUR LOST GENERATION: The Passing of Our Parents

WHO ARE YOU? Radical Change in Personality

WHO AM I? Changes in Our Identity

CREATURES THAT COMFORT: Loss of a Pet

MOVING ON: Broken Relationships

SHIFT IN PERSPECTIVE: Dealing with Really Difficult People

THE LABORER IS WORTHY OF HIRE: Loss of a Job

WHAT, THEN, IS HEALING? Changes in Health

THE FACE IN THE MIRROR: Changes in Appearance

DISTANCE LEARNING; Changes in Community

LAUGHTER AND TEARS AND Perspective on Perspective

TATTOO THIS! Growing Improbably Older

SHIFTING GEARS: Changes in Speed, Skill, and Perspective

YOU GOTTA HAVE A DREAM.... Reimagining the Future

GARBAGE ROUGHS: Respecting and Restructuring Plans

HERE I (UNEXPECTEDLY) STAND: Pathway to Pilgrimage

NOW, WHERE DID I PUT IT? Lost and Found by Faith

LUUUV CALLS AND ISLANDS RISING: Voices and Vision

SITTING WITH GOD: A Listening, Speaking Heart

PAST AND PRESENT A L REPRISTINATION: The Work of Restoration

UNEXPECTED, REFLECTED: Surprised by Grace

EPILOGUE: Helen's Brick-and-Mortar Maxim

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