Men Made Easy: How to Get What You Want from Your Man - Softcover

Oh, Kara

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0966787595 ISBN 13: 9780966787597

Publisher: Avambre Pr, 1999

Synopsis

Whether single or married, Men Made Easy is filled with information that is so essential, you'll wonder how you survived without it.

If you and your girlfriends have ever laughed that you need an "owner's manual" for the men in your life, Men Made Easy is as close as you'll get. Men become a little nervous when they find out how accurately this book explains why they do what they do, what they are thinking, and how to get them to respond to you in ways you've always hoped for. But if you are looking for quick, cute,and snappy ways to manipulate men, this is not the book for you. You're going to be getting much more than a quick fix or clever tricks.

You will be looking inside the private world of men, a world they have chosen not to reveal to women and you will find that men become more predictable and sometimes even transparent. You will be much smarter in how you communicate and interact with them. All your relationships with men will begin to improve, especially in the arena of love and romance.

To get more love and romance, you need to learn what is really going on with men. After interviewing hundreds of men and studying them for two years, Kara Oh is able to take you into their previously hidden world. Here is just some of what you can expect:

* You will discover how to communicate your needs in new ways, ways that will make him want to do things for you (yes, even help around the house) and want to make you happy.

* You will learn what it takes to get him to want to commit to you and make you his wife.

* You will learn how to get that new man's attention and put him in such a spin that he won't be able to take his mind off of you.

* You will have fun "playing with" your feminine grace and watching how easily men respond to the secrets that you will be using.

You know that he hides his feelings behind a defensive wall. And you beat against his chest because he won't let you in. But now you are going to be able to actually go behind that wall, find out what he is feeling, what drives him, what he's afraid of, what he won't tell you, why he needs to be successful, what love means to him, and why he wants and needs to marry. Because you are going to make him feel understood and safe for maybe the first time, you will become invaluable to him because you will now have the key to his heart and soul. You will also enjoy a new sense of empowerment that will make you feel like dancing. And even though he won't know what's happening to him, he's going to love what you're doing and realize how very special you are to him.

With a higher than 50% divorce rate and at least 80% of dating relationships failing and breaking hearts, it's obvious that there is something terribly wrong with how men and women interact and it's getting worse, not better. Communication is the key but if you are like most women, you've seen his eyes glaze over and most likely heard the phrase, "Can you just get to the point?" Obviously, you need to speak to him in new ways if you are going to see improvements in your relationship because how you have been doing it isn't working very well, is it? Finally, you will know how to speak to him so he really and truly listens to what you have to say.

You can finally take charge of your love life. You deserve to be loved, to feel empowered in your relationship and to enjoy happiness. Kara offers the tools you need to finally get what you want: ever-deepening love and respect, romance, and an enduring relationship with a man who makes you feel cherished and adored. Men Made Easy is filled to overflowing with in-depth understanding about what it takes to create the kind of relationship you want. The book is easy to understand and fun to read. And almost immediately, effortlessly, you will be using her secrets like a pro.

Some emails that have been sent to the author or to her online advice column, Ask Ms. Magic:

Dear Kara, I am soooooo happy!  It just dawned on me how much my SO has improved since I read and applied Kara's techniques (3 months or so).  He is less moody, doesn't go into those "I need my space" funks for days like he used to (now it's one evening of "I need to watch TV in the other room, ok?" and then back to cuddle time!).  He professes his love for me more often and has even said the things I've longed to hear, "you are my destiny, my goddess, you helped me to live again!"  When he said those things, I almost cried. This was two days ago and I'm still in shock and on cloud nine!  Ladies, I say, read Kara's book a few times over if you need to and live it!  My relationship has become something of my dreams that I thought would never come true.  If it can happen for me it can happen for you.  Kara, feel free to use my comments to promote your book if you'd like, I want as many women as possible to feel as good as I feel right now! I’ve also posted this on the Yahoo! Men Made Easy online women’s support group. Mizzhoney :-)

Hello Kara, About your book...I am up to page 40 Kara, I think it is fabulous and I honor your insight, your intelligence and your inner beauty.  I am thrilled at how just reading only this far makes me feel an exceptionally beautiful woman and I thank you for reminding me how wonderful it is to be one.  I am 59 years old and have been ill for some time so I had just forgotten, but never again, for I will always have your book. Dell

Hi, Kara: You are a genius. Thanks for such a wonderful book.  This is GREAT STUFF -- and I can't wait to use it. N.C.

Dear Kara, So often in life, we look for things to be complicated so that we can take pride in subject mastery... which often leads to such incomplete understanding. Thank you for breaking past that boundary with your great book & booklets. Please send info if/when available so that I can sign up for on line support groups. Also, I want to buy 2 hard copies of your books for my sisters... I've been respectful of your good work and have not forwarded the emailed version, but really want to share your insights. Are you planning on doing any East Coast seminars in the next year? Many thanks, Maureen PS: undoubtedly, the best $12 ever spent. No lipstick, cute shirt or strapped sandal has made me feel as confident; so glad I ran into your book just before dating again.

THANK YOU KARA!!!!! This book has me mesmerized!  As Beth in the book says, most of it I already know, just not consciously, or especially how to apply it to help the relationship.  I am only half way through the book and I have come across MANY things that make me think of this friend, or that friend. Every woman should read this, and I will be telling the women I know! I have already started to think differently about myself, men, and love.... Dana G.

About this title

About the Author

Hi, I'm Kara and I wrote Men Made Easy.

A friend recently said I should tell my own story because it's the best example of how powerful my secrets about men really are.  I was married for 29 years. Very traditional, he was the boss, I hinted and made him guess what I wanted, I was a career-oriented housewife, he did practically nothing around the house, focused on work and didn't participate much in our children's lives. There wasn't any romance and the love was more like close roommates. We were good friends and enjoyed each other's company. We were conformable but there was never any passion. I ached for it and often silently cried myself to sleep.

Then my husband did some things that caused me to no longer respect or trust him. So, after 29 years of marriage, I filed for divorce. It was fun being single but after a few years, I knew I wanted to marry again. I had been teaching women’s seminars and sharing what I had been learning about men with them. Then I decided to put my insights about men into book form. When I was ready to find my prince, of course I used the secrets in my book. Because I'd learned how men think, how they see the world, what they're afraid of, what they want out of life, what motivates them and most important, what makes them fall in love, I was able to attract a man who is passionate, fun, and intelligent, a man I can admire and respect and a man who makes me feel loved like I'd always wanted.

Of course he knows my secrets. He knows I used them to win his heart. But he knows that the most important part of my book is that the woman should be happy. Happy is when she's most attractive, happy is when she's open to love, and happy is a woman who knows how to ask for what she wants in a way that causes the man to jump at the opportunity to please her, like my Carly Boy. He even uses my book to tease me. In my book I talk about how the difference in the way men and women talk is the source of many problems. Men talk to communicate while women talk to connect. Carl will say, "Now, my dear, are you trying to communicate with me or connect?" 

He's proud of what I've accomplished and supports me in the fulfillment of my dreams, which happen to be pretty big. I feel totally blessed. I guarantee you will be a happier woman once you've read Men Made Easy. And if you're married, or have a boyfriend, he'll think he's died and gone to heaven. If you're single and are searching for that special someone, things are going to change.

From the Inside Flap

Men Really ARE Easy If You Just Know What to Do

* Does your relationship fall short of a fairy tale dream-come-true?

* Does your husband or boyfriend make you crazy?

* Have you given up on trying to figure men out?

* Does your heart long for more love and romance?

* Would you like a relationship that makes your heart sing?

In MEN MADE EASY you’ll discover the Twelve Simple Secrets about men that will unveil the mysteries of what makes men do what they do. You’ll finally have the leverage you need to get what you want from any man. The magic is that he’ll love you for what you’re doing, without knowing what hit him...and you’ll become happier and more fulfilled.

After interviewing hundreds of men, Kara Oh developed Twelve Simple Secrets so she could share her winning techniques with other women. Her fresh insights, derived from teaching self-empowerment workshops, bring a new slant to understanding men and improving romantic relationships.

"Women who long for lasting love will find the secrets here. MEN MADE EASY is a gift for any committed relationship." --Marti Glenn, Ph.D. psychotherapist in private practice

"This book is practical, straight forward and offers effective suggestions. Kara Oh has pait attention. I wish all my clients would take advantage of her research." --Ken Bruer, Marriage and Family Therapist

Edition details

• Publisher: Avambre Pr
• Publication date: 1999
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0966787595
• ISBN 13: 9780966787597
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 180