Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control: A Love-Based Approach to Helping Attachment-Challenged Children With Severe Behaviors - Softcover

Heather T. Forbes; B. Bryan Post

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0977704009 ISBN 13: 9780977704002

Publisher: Beyond Consequences Institute, LLC, 2006

Synopsis

Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control covers in detail the effects of trauma on the body-mind and how trauma alters children's behavioral responses. The first four chapters help parents and professionals clearly understand the neurological research behind the basic model given in this book, deemed, 'The Stress Model.' While scientifically based in research, it is written in an easy to understand and easy to grasp format for anyone working with or parenting children with severe behaviors. The next seven chapters are individually devoted to seven behaviors typically seen with attachment-challenged children. These include lying, stealing, hoarding and gorging, aggression, defiance, lack of eye contact, and yes, even a chapter that talks candidly about how parents appear hostile and angry when they work to simply maintain their families from reaching complete states of chaos. Each of these chapters talks in depth on these specific behaviors and gives vivid and contrasting examples of how this love-based approach works to foster healing and works to develop relationships, as opposed to the fear-based traditional attachment parenting approaches that are being advocated in today's attachment field. The authors end with a Parenting Bonus Section: true testimonials from parents who have been able to make significant changes in their homes with this model of parenting, giving real-life examples of how they have been able to find the healing, peace, and love that they had been seeking prior to working through the techniques outlined in this book.

About this title

About the Author

Heather T. Forbes, LCSW, is the co-founder of the Beyond Consequences Institute. She is an internationally published author on the topics of adoptive motherhood, raising children with difficult and severe behaviors, and self development. Forbes lectures, consults, and coaches parents throughout the U.S., Canada, Europe, and Australia, with families in crisis working to create peaceful, loving families. She is passionate about supporting families by bridging the gap between academic research and "when the rubber hits the road" parenting. Much of her experience and insight into understanding trauma, disruptive behaviors, developmental delays, and adoption-related issues stems from the direct mothering experience of her two internationally adopted children.

Review

The authors address the most pressing and challenging issues faced by parents of children with histories of disrupted attachments. --Sir Richard Bowlby, Attachment Advocate.
--Sir Richard Bowlby, Attachment Advocate.

Powerfully healing! The authors have written a profoundly insightful and absolutely critical book for parents and professionals.
--Stacey and Scott Annand - parents and advocates for healing families --Scott Annand, Parent and advocate for healing families

This book is brilliant! It lets parents know there is another way.
--Terry Chapman, adoptive mother --Terry Chapman, Adoptive mother

Powerfully healing! The authors have written a profoundly insightful and absolutely critical book for parents and professionals. --Stacey and Scott Annand - parents and advocates for healing families --Scott Annand, Parent and advocate for healing families

This book is brilliant! It lets parents know there is another way. --Terry Chapman, adoptive mother --Terry Chapman, Adoptive mother

Edition details

• Publisher: Beyond Consequences Institute, LLC
• Publication date: 2006
• ISBN 10: 0977704009
• ISBN 13: 9780977704002
• Binding: Paperback
• Language: English
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 152