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My Top 40 at 40: Making the First Half Count - Softcover

Loya, Kari

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Synopsis

How many folks have run to the bottom of the Grand Canyon, to the top of the Empire State Building, and with the bulls through the streets of Pamplona? That's just the beginning. In My Top 40 at 40: Making the First Half Count, Kari Loya presents an original, meaningful way to celebrate his 40th birthday-by sharing his own collection of forty favorite stories spanning six continents and two decades. Loya reflects on experiences we can all relate to, such as preparing for the first job interview or coping with a long commute. He shares adventures we might dream about, like a three-day James Bond theme wedding in Argentina or an epic horseback crossing of the Andes. He also reveals encounters we pray to avoid. The stories are full of surprise and are told with a keen eye, gentle humor, infectious curiosity, and an inspiring positive attitude towards embracing challenges and learning. This book will motivate you to get out there and start racking up your own stories. It's not just for those turning forty-it's the perfect gift for any milestone!

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From the Author

This book is my answer to the question, "How should I celebrate my fortieth birthday?" I wanted something fun and meaningful. I wanted something I could share with family and friends. And I wanted something that ultimately could smother the negativity of aging by offering an approach that says, "Bring it on!" What better way to celebrate a birthday than to collect favorite stories of your own adventures and share them with others? Six ideas underlie this belief:
 
Everyone loves a story. I once heard the Chilean novelist, Isabel Allende, recount her first year of teaching with a difficult class whose students had either severe learning disabilities or behavioral issues. With the sarcastic blessings of her colleagues still ringing in her ears, she entered the classroom and uttered these four magic words: "Once upon a time..." The room became silent--and she began her career not only as a great teacher, but as a gifted storyteller. The stories in this collection are the same ones I've told over campfires, late-night beers, and long road trips.
 
We write our own script. My favorite story of all-time is William Goldman's book The Princess Bride with its non-stop action and adventure from beginning to end. But why leave this for the imagination? Why not live it? We all have the chance to write THE SCRIPT--the script of our lives. As the old adage says, "Will you have enough stories to tell your grandchildren?"
 
Get it on paper. Bill Clinton once remarked that every American should write their memoirs. But "memoirs" can sound incredibly daunting, even a little boring, like an A-to-Z chronicle of every detail of our lives. But "stories" are the best of, the highlights, manageable nuggets which everyone can pen. Why wait until your nineties?
 
Do it...NOW! Randy Komisar's The Monk and the Riddle tells us that the traditional model of working hard for forty years in hopes of one day being able to do what we really want to do sets us up for disappointment. First, we might not even make it to old age, but second, when we finally do have that magical time--or money--we still might not know what we really want. You may have to do a lot of soul-searching and make some not-so-easy adjustments, but at least you will be headed in the right direction.
 
Age brings life lessons. When we turn forty--or any age--nothing is magically different. We've simply added another layer to our lives. Sandra Cisneros writes about this notion in her short story, "Eleven," where she compares aging to rings on a tree. Our outer layer may be different, but we are fundamentally the same person and can still have that giggle, that curiosity, that spark of the six-year-old. Wouldn't you, too, like to be the mighty redwood with fifteen hundred rings of experience and wisdom?
 
Enjoy life more year by year. I once heard the president of a prestigious college tell his graduates, "If you look back on these four years as the best four years of your life, we will have failed you." Brilliant. Every day is an opportunity to learn so that in each successive year--despite all that comes with growing older--we enjoy life even more. It's not about beauty, brawn, or assets. It's about cultivating character, fostering relationships, and developing the right mindset. I hope these stories show I'm on the right path.
 
Some may choose to read this book from cover to cover. Others may jump directly to stories with themes, places, or events of personal interest. Regardless, may something in this collection motivate you to run faster, think harder, explore further, reflect longer, dig deeper, or laugh louder. But most importantly, whether you're approaching forty, fifty, or any other milestone, I encourage you, too, to bear-hug your next birthday with your favorite stories.

About the Author

Kari Loya is an athlete, educator, adventurer, and storyteller as well as an Emmy-winning voice-over artist who works with many Fortune 500 companies. Loya also serves as the Development Director at The Dwight School, an international private school in New York City with campuses in London, Vancouver Island, Beijing, and Seoul. He holds an MBA from Columbia University and graduated magna cum laude from Dartmouth College with a BA in History. He speaks fluent English, Spanish, and Portuguese. Kari lives with his wife and daughter just outside New York City.

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