Why Mr. Right Can't Find You: The surprising answers that will change your life - and his - Softcover

Kearns, J.M.

Softcover

ISBN 10: 0996239200 ISBN 13: 9780996239202

Publisher: Hornepayne Press, 2015

Synopsis

This newly revised, acclaimed book has the smartest guide to today's online dating, including the truth about Tinder: does Tinder really shield you from rejection, like they say? Is Tinder a better option than online dating? 
Why Mr. Right Can't Find You has garnered rave reviews from Publisher's Weekly, OK! magazine, and Maclean's, and has been featured by Oprah & Friends, Glamour, Cosmopolitan-UK, Woman's World, Complete Woman, and many other media.
In this updated edition, J.M. Kearns, PhD, shows that men are not shallow, not the enemy, and not aliens from Mars. In fact, the good man who is searching for you is your greatest ally.
Kearns overturns the classic dating myths--e.g., that destiny chose the "one and only" man for you, that all men prefer the same body type--and explores woman-man "sightings" that occur constantly and should not be squandered.
Then there is the neglected riddle of compatibility. Kearns offers a hilarious and practical guide to the factors that make two people a good long-term match for each other, illustrated with real-life vignettes straight from the dating trenches.
Finally, a third of the book is devoted to online dating. Kearns unlocks these topics:
- why online dating gives the best odds
- the one mistake not to make in your dating searches
- does everybody lie on dating sites?
- how to eliminate Mr. Wrongs
- why you should avoid falling in love before you meet in person
- are pay dating sites a scam?
- how to tailor your introduction to the guy you seek
- can eHarmony.com tell who is right for you?
- the first in-person meeting: what to wear, what to ask, what to watch for and watch out for.
- how to choose the best dating site for you.

Review
"If you've been on the lookout for ages but still haven't found The One, this is for you...you'll be in the arms of your true love in no time!" -- OK! Magazine
"Practical, encouraging and...optimistic...Kearns gently undermines the conventions and insecurities that keep women from actively and effectively seeking a mate, including self-defeating myths and media-inspired body-image issues... Personal anecdotes round out this thorough, thoughtful and entirely upbeat dating guide." --Publishers Weekly
"I review self-help books for a living and this is the best self-help book I've ever read."-- Julia McKinnell, Contributing editor, Maclean's
"Unlike most such books, Why Mr. Right Can't Find You is funny, inspiring and quite practical. A new book aimed specifically at successful, real single women, it may be just the thing you need to find Mr. Right-for-you. And it's been known to help a few men find their Ms. Right." -- Carolyn Cooke in The Now Newspaper

About this title

From the Inside Flap

How many of us limit our romantic choice to the people who happen to wash up on our shore?

Many single women think:
"I'm not seeing him anywhere; therefore he doesn't exist. (The good man I would like to be with.) Or if he does exist, he doesn't want me. Men want 'Perfection'."

But in reality, your dream man is out there looking for you. Why hasn't he found you? Because he can't do it alone. He needs you to believe he exists, and to help him find you. Mr. Right needs your help.

It just isn't true that all men are looking for the media's "perfect woman." Whatever your personality,n body type, or age, there are men out there who think you are fabulous. So don't worry about what "most men want"; use this book to find the worthy men who want you.

Why Mr. Right Can't Find You will show you exactly how to reach out to where your dream partner can reach you. You'll also get expert advice to give you an edge in the remarkable opportunity that is online dating. And a hilariously truthful guide to the riddle of compatibility, to help you recognize Mr. Right-for-you.

Our self-help culture has put up a wall between men and women, making it hard of them to hear each other's voices. Why Mr. Right Can't Find You tears down this wall, revealing that men are not shallow, not the enemy, and not aliens from Mars!

From the Back Cover

"If you've been on the lookout for ages but still haven't found the One, this is for you... you'll be in the arms of your true love in no time!" - OK! Magazine

Mr. Right is out there now - and the woman he wants is You.

Yes, you...as you are right now.

Why Mr. Right Can't Find You exposes the classic myths of dating and reveals the surprising secrets of true compatibility. giving you the tools to eliminate the Mr. Wrongs and, more importantly. to recognize the perfect man for you. No more playing games or second-guessing. with this book you will discover that any time is the right time to meet Mr. Right, that online dating can be the most successful way to find a partner, and, above all, that you ideal mate is out there now, looking for you. You just have to give him a little help...and this book tells you how.

Witty and down-to-earth, this practical guide will turn everything you thought you knew about mating and dating on its head.

Edition details

• Publisher: Hornepayne Press
• Publication date: 2015
• ISBN 10: 0996239200
• ISBN 13: 9780996239202
• Binding: Paperback
• Language: English
• Number of pages: 272