Write It Out, Don?t Fight It Out: How to Use Letters to Heal Your Relationship When Talking Gets Tough - Softcover

Davenport, Barrie

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1548557684 ISBN 13: 9781548557683

Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, 2017

Synopsis

Does communicating with your partner sometimes feel impossible? Do you wish you could just stop arguing and talk without defensiveness and hurt feelings?

Are there things you want to say or ask butfeel too uncomfortable or embarrassed? 

Sometimes communicating verbally can make a relationship issue worse rather than better, because things get too emotional or awkward. 

** There are hurt or angry feelings.
** Someone clams up or walks away.
** Both of you feel misunderstood or unheard. You want to tell your partner you need more sex. You're super irritated that you're doing most of the chores. Your spouse's extra weight is turning you off. But how can you share these things without a big blow-up or meltdown?

What can a couple do when conversation isn't working?

You could try couple's therapy, but before you do, there's another way to communicate that's free, easy, and potentially life-changing for your relationship -- writing letters.

When talking breaks down or gets testy, writing letters to each other is a highly effective way to communicate in your love relationship or marriage. 

Why letter writing?

Letter writing allows you to slow down, consider your words, and articulate them in the spirit of love and kindness, even with the most difficult and painful situations. 

Writing your feelings and needs in a thoughtful way sets the tone for healthier dialogue, as you can bypass hurtful words and angry reactions.

You can use a letter to initiate a verbal discussion on a sensitive topic (like sex or money) without the intense emotions that can arise with face-to-face conversation.

Letter writing is a transformational process that helps build intimacy, resolve conflict, and foster self-awareness and compassion.With the right words, presented in a kind way, you leave room for understanding, compromise, and negotiation.

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Writing letters is one of the best strategies to rebuild your closeness and even save your marriage. As you learn how to write healing, thoughtful letters, you will also improve your verbal communication. 

In Write It Out, Don't Fight It Out, you'll discover:

** Why letters work and when to use them
** Why conflict is valuable and common areas of conflict
** 4 communication killers that make talking impossible
** How great letters lead to better conversations
** What to do if one partner doesn't participate
** 82 letter writing templates for 21 common relationship topics

You'll know the best words and phrases to use.

With these empowering letter writing templates, you'll have the phrases and words you need at your fingertips, so you can communicate in a healthy, healing way. You'll know exactly what to say in the situations that make talking tough for both of you.

This is a communication book like no other.

If you're looking for proven relationship and marriage exercises that spell out exactly what to do to improve communication and intimacy, you have found your resource. 

The unique approach Barrie Davenport teaches with her letter-writing templates gives you tools to bypass fights and miscommunication and get straight to the heart of what you both want: a loving, happy, healthy relationship.

True change and improvement in your relationship is possible, and it starts today with just one letter. 

To get your relationship back on track, to enhance your intimacy and become the loving, sexy couple you want to be, click the BUY NOW button at the top right of this page.

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Review

The letters are profoundly moving, emotional and engaging. This is a thought-provoking book that I would definitely recommend to anyone looking to confront the relationship they are in. -Scott B. Allen 

Barrie Davenport gently guides readers to a more productive and simple communication method that bypasses misunderstandings and leads to greater love, understanding and intimacy. -Elle Sommer 

I can't wait to put these tools in action!! Thanks for a great self help guide for those of us who have struggles in the communication area!!-Grace

This book deserves an avalanche of grateful reviews!-S.E. Lentz

If you have relationships in your life that matter to you, this book is worth the 2 hours it takes to read, consider and learn from.-W. Anderson

What an opportunity! What a great engagement or wedding gift! What a gift for those going through the change points in life: children, new job, financial issues, empty nest or retirement.-Sherry

Edition details

• Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform
• Publication date: 2017
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 1548557684
• ISBN 13: 9781548557683
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 220