My Therapist's Dog: Lessons in Unconditional Love - Softcover

Wells, Diana

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1565123719 ISBN 13: 9781565123717

Publisher: Algonquin Books, 2004

Synopsis

Diana Wells's intriguing exploration into the rewards of relationships--both the canine and human varieties--begins when she reluctantly starts seeing a psychologist, Beth, during a difficult time in her life. With no insurance to pay for counseling, a barter is arranged in which the client becomes part-time caretaker to the therapist's dog, Luggs, a sweet, clumsy black Labrador retriever.

As Wells examines her past--her peripatetic childhood, her eccentric family, her grief over the deaths of loved ones--Luggs provides a bridge between therapist and patient. Dog lover by nature, historian by trade, Wells finds herself curious about the connections that dogs and humans have shared for centuries--and what these bonds tell us about our own psyches.

Wells observes that training a dog has much in common with the therapeutic techniques her psychologist employs. Looking into recent experiments that have proved dogs better at interpreting human behavior than chimps or wolves, Wells explores the subtleties of her own relationship with dogs. Increasingly she finds herself agreeing with Diogenes, the original Greek cynic (the word cynic comes from the greek kuon, meaning "dog"), who said that unless we think like dogs, happiness will elude us.

Wells analyzes what we name our dogs, how we breed them, how we've explored the wilderness with them, the kinds of literature we write about them, why we love them, and, most important, what we can learn from them.

When an unexpected illness befalls Beth, Luggs comforts the two women, and his devotion helps Wells come to accept that relationships--despite the possibility of hurt and pain--are what life is all about.

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About the Author

Diana Wells is the author of 100 Birds and How They Got Their Names and 100 Flowers and How They Got Their Names, has written for Friends Journal, and is contributing editor of the journal Greenprints. Born in Jerusalem, she has lived in England and Italy and holds an honors degree in history from Oxford University. She now lives with her husband on a farm in Pennsylvania.

Reviews

After her son and her sister die within weeks of each other, Wells (100 Flowers and How They Got Their Names) goes against her British "stiff upper lip" upbringing, which warns her therapy is only for the weak, and seeks out Beth, a psychologist. Wells cares for Beth's Labrador retriever, Luggs, in exchange for sessions she could not otherwise afford, and thus begins an unconventional, intricate dance between patient and therapist. Wells slowly opens up to Beth, comparing herself to a puppy, desperate for her therapist's love: "Sometimes I felt that I, too, frantically barked, endeavoring to attract Beth's attention and affection." She interweaves recollections of her life and her sessions with historical information about dogs. After her son's death, she quits going to Quaker meeting and comes to see walking dogs as an alternate form of spirituality her son would have liked; she uses this as an occasion to muse on the high regard many cultures have held for the dog as guardian of the afterlife. Sometimes these cultural tidbits interrupt Wells's more compelling and honest reflections about her relationship with Beth, which form the heart of this book. Beth's eventual illness confronts Wells again with loss; the way both patient and psychologist care for each other through this illness is poignant testimony to the power of healing relationships.
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Wells was a skeptic regarding psychologists and other forms of therapy and counseling; however, after losing her sister to cancer and her son to suicide within weeks of each other, she sought help from an acquaintance who was a psychologist. With no insurance to pay for her sessions, Wells volunteered to care for the therapist's dog, Luggs, a Labrador retriever. What starts as a tentative relationship between the two women blossoms as Wells incorporates Luggs into her life, along with her own dog, Nemo, a German shepherd. Wells, a historian, interweaves the history of dogs as companions, references to them in psychotherapy, and modern research on the therapeutic benefits of having a dog. She also recounts her recovery from loss and how she forged a deeper connection with her therapist after the counselor faced her own serious illness. Dog owners will love this book, but other readers will also enjoy this astonishing story of the healing that can come out of relationships between humans and canines. Vanessa Bush
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Edition details

• Publisher: Algonquin Books
• Publication date: 2004
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 1565123719
• ISBN 13: 9781565123717
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 160