Fathers' Rights: The Best Interest of Your Child Includes You - Softcover

Gross, James J.

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1572485671 ISBN 13: 9781572485679

Publisher: Sphinx Pub, 2006

Synopsis

Millions of fathers are currently fighting for custody of their children. Many wonder if they will ever again be an important part of their children's lives. Fathers' Rights covers every aspect of the custody process, including protecting the parent/child relationship as a break-up occurs, determining when to settle and when to litigate and explanations concerning the court's determination of a fair level of child support.

This new edition updates the ever-changing laws in this area and expands into additional topics of importance concerning paternity issues and fathers serving in the armed forces.

Numerous court cases are used as examples to illustrate relevant situations. An extensive list of resources including agencies, organizations and websites is included as easy reference for the reader.

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About the Author

James J. Gross received his J.D. from the University of Missouri. He was formerly an attorney with the Federal Communications Commission. Mr. Gross is a managing partner and has practiced in the areas of family and business law and civil litigation for over 20 years. He is licensed to practice in Maryland and the District of Columbia. He resides in Potomac, Maryland.

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Rights and Responsibilities You Have as a Father

Excerpted from Father's Rights by James J. Gross ©2004

Fatherhood, by law, gives you certain rights and responsibilities with respect to your children. You do not need a court order to obtain your rights as a father. You already have them. They are guaranteed by the United States Constitution and the laws of your state. As a father and as a parent, you have the right to:

? be an influence in your children's lives;
? be involved, interact, and spend time with your children;
? love and nurture your children without harassment from the other parent;
? decide where your children will live;
? participate in the parenting of your children;
? see the school and medical records of your children;
? attend and participate in your children's extracurricular activities;
? have custody, care, and control of your children;
? select your children's school and determine whether it will be home, public, or private;
? determine your children's religious faith and practices;
? determine your children's doctor, dentist, and medical treatment;
? follow your own beliefs and parenting style during your time with the children without interference from the other parent;
? guide and discipline your children; and,
? decide what is best for your children.

The law provides that fathers also have certain duties, obligations, and responsibilities.

You have the responsibility to:

? support your children;
? provide your children with food, shelter, and clothing;
? see that your children obtain appropriate medical treatment;
? provide access to your children's schooling; and,
? protect your children from harm and neglect.

Children also have rights. Children have the right to:

? be fed, clothed, sheltered, and educated;
? be loved, protected, and nurtured;
? be free from the conflict of the parents;
? not be used as a spy, messenger, or bargaining chip;
? be a child without having to make adult decisions;
? inherit from their parents;
? have the benefits of relationships with the extended family of both parents;
? have two parents-both a mother and a father;
? spend as much time as possible with each parent unless a parent is unfit;
? develop a meaningful relationship with each parent; and,
? enjoy and love each parent without disapproval of the other parent.

PATERNITY
Fatherhood may be legally established by court order through a paternity case. In a paternity case, the court determines the father of a child and decides custody, visitation, child support, and related matters.

You do not necessarily need a court proceeding to establish that you are the father. If you are married and a child is born during the marriage, there is a legal presumption (in most states) that you are the father. In some states, that presumption is irrefutable. In those states, this can result in certain paradoxes. For example, if you are the biological father, but the mother is married to someone else, you will not be the legal father with rights to custody or visitation. On the other hand, if your wife has a child by another man during your marriage, you are presumed to be the legal father. You could then be required to pay child support for a child that is not yours biologically.

If you are trying to assert your rights to custody and visitation with your child and the mother disputes that you are the father, you can ask the court to decide. Paternity cases also arise when a mother is trying to obtain child support from a man who claims he is not the father.

Paternity Disputes
You can avoid a paternity dispute by voluntarily admitting paternity and signing an affidavit of paternity declaring that you are the father. The affidavit is signed by you and the mother, in front of a notary, and filed with the court. Once the judge signs the affidavit, if required by state law, that will make you the legal father. This is true even if you are not the biological father.

If you do not believe you are the father of the child in a paternity case, you have the right to ask the court for a paternity test. Genetic testing has replaced blood tests for determining paternity. This is because blood tests could rule you out as a father, but could not say with certainty whether or not you were the father of a child. Genetic testing can pinpoint the father with almost 100% accuracy. The testing is done by using a cotton swab to take a saliva sample from the mouth. You can hire a private lab to conduct the test or you can request that the court order a test. The cost is around $500 and sometimes insurance will pay a portion of the cost.

You have the right to ask the court for a determination of whether or not you are the father. You have the right to obtain custody of your child, whether or not you are married to the mother.

You can also ask for a hearing to determine if you are fit to have custody. If you are the father of a child and the court grants you custody, then you will have a say in how the child will be raised. The mother of the child must consult and discuss with you the various parenting issues concerning the minor child, such as religion, education, medical treatment, and other decisions. You have the right to be informed as to the activities of the minor child and you have the right to participate in those activities. You also have the right to see medical records and school records.

If you do not wish to have custody or if the court does not grant custody, you still have the right to have visitation with the minor child. Visitation will depend on the facts and circumstances of your case. For example, if you have not had a relationship with the child
or you have no experience in raising children, then you may have to start with supervised or graduated visitation. If you are the father of a child, you have the responsibility of
supporting that child. If the mother has custody, then you will be required by law to pay her child support. Some states make child support retroactive to the date the mother files a petition in court for child support. Others allow retroactive child support to the date of birth and medical expenses for the birth.

If you are declared the legal father of a child, your name will be recorded as the father on the child's birth certificate and your surname will be entered on the birth certificate as the child's surname. If you are declared the legal father of a child, you are the guardian of that child. That means you have the right to consent to medical decisions, marriage, or enlistment in the armed services before the age of majority, invest money belonging to the child, and/or take legal action on behalf of the child.

Edition details

• Publisher: Sphinx Pub
• Publication date: 2006
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 1572485671
• ISBN 13: 9781572485679
• Binding: Paperback
• Edition number: 2
• Number of pages: 290