Undressing Infidelity: Why More Wives are Unfaithful - Softcover

Diane Shader Smith

Softcover

ISBN 10: 159337481X ISBN 13: 9781593374815

Publisher: Adams Media Corp, 2005

Synopsis

Offers an inside look at the lives of married women involved in extramarital affairs.

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About the Author

Diane Shader Smith was the director of public relations at Rogers and Cowan in Los Angeles, where she worked with clients such as Microsoft, General Mills, and Baja Fresh. She has been interviewed about her research for Undressing Infidelity by the LA Times, NPR's Alex Chadwick, Newsweek's Vanessa Juarez, and CBS News.

Reviews

Sidestepping statistics and sociological analysis in favor of good old-fashioned steamy storytelling, this book offers an insider's perspective on the phenomena of cheating wives. Smith reveals her personal fascination with the subject of female adultery in the opening chapter-a flirtatious relationship with a handsome man she met on a business trip once caused her to risk her comfortable marriage by almost starting an affair. Her cautionary tale reads like the opening of a romance novel, engrossing the reader with the daring of her flirtatious encounters. After her near affair, Smith began interviewing other women who had actually cheated in an attempt to figure out why women stray. These 14 absorbing stories are told through the wives' unique voices. Jennifer, a soccer mom with a bad sex life but a loving husband, found that her affair with a doctor actually raised her self-worth and helped her marriage. Theresa, a teacher in her 40s from the Midwest, with a "prim demeanor" and strict parents who never broached the subject of sex, cheated on her abusive husband with a cowboy she met at a bar. Smith admits that every person she interviewed challenged her assumptions about the type of woman who could be unfaithful, but unfortunately, she does not seem to have reached any more substantial conclusions than that. The book offers insufficient insight into how to prevent a good marriage from going sour, but what it lacks in social significance, it makes up for in intrigue and romance. Readers will be entertained by these real-life accounts of cheating wives, even if the overarching question of why women cheat is ultimately left unanswered.
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Edition details

• Publisher: Adams Media Corp
• Publication date: 2005
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 159337481X
• ISBN 13: 9781593374815
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 272