The Bluffer's Guide to Relationships (Bluffer's Guides) - Softcover

Mason, Mark

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1903096677 ISBN 13: 9781903096673

Publisher: Oval Books, 2007

Synopsis

Oil is not lost

The correct attitude to take when discussing Kerckhoff and Davis' filter theory is one of amused cynicism. You can point out that it has completely missed some of the most important filters in an average relationship. For example the oil filter on the car. When a man forgets to change that, his relationship really is in trouble.

 

Amore is more than it seems

Some psychologists think that love” is essentially the same as like.” In other words, that loving may be an extreme version of liking, but that its core qualities are the same. Others, however, think that it is qualitatively different. (A good word for the bluffer, that qualitatively.” It helps to lend a real air of expertise. Try and drop it casually into the conversation at dinner parties. But make sure you do so before the brandy, otherwise you’ve got no chance.)

 

Line dancing

Warn others not to wait too long before choosing or they could fall into the conveyor belt” trap. This is the formula that assumes that of the people who come into your life randomly from the age of 16 to 60, you will want to pick the best item off the conveyor belt. But, as in a sushi bar, the longer you wait the more likely it is that the tastiest item will have gone by.

 

Truly, deeply, madly

So when it comes to deepening and strengthening a relationship, a woman will engage in such activities as making the home comfortable, preparing her partner's favorite meal, telling him on a repeated basis how much she loves him. A man will bleed the radiators.

 

Dear John

The thinking behind silent dating is that it challenges your ideas about self-expression.... If you want to appear satirical, offer the thought that in getting partners to communicate only in writing, silent dating starts a relationship in exactly the way many of them end.

About this title

From the Back Cover:

Be an instant expert on relationships and bluff your way with anyone who knows anything about personal liaisons. No studying required, just a sense of humor.
Bluffer's Guides is a series of snappy little books containing facts, jargon, and all you need to know for instant expertise.

About the Author:

Mark Mason has had many relationships in his life. Among the most important have been those with his lawyer, his accountant, and the Special Investigations Department of the Inland Revenue. He claims once to have had a relationship with a woman in Hull, although the woman herself disputes this. However, his renown as the author of the novel What Men Know about Sex has given a boost to his relationships - both virtual and actual.

About this edition

• Publisher: Oval Books
• Publication date: 2007
• ISBN 10: 1903096677
• ISBN 13: 9781903096673
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 59