Rejection Free: How to Choose Yourself First and Take Charge of Your Life by Confidently Asking For What You Want (Rejection Free for Life) - Softcover

Allan, Scott

Softcover

ISBN 10: 1989599001 ISBN 13: 9781989599006

Publisher: Scott Allan Bowes, 2020

Synopsis

Do you hold back from asking for what you really want, terrified that the answer will be NO?

You are not alone. And the cost of staying silent is far greater than any rejection.

Rejection Free is a practical, three-part roadmap for anyone who has spent their life playing it safe, settling for less, and waiting for someone else to hand them the life they actually want.

Here is what most people never realize: the fear of hearing NO rarely starts with other people. It starts with self-rejection, the moment you decide you do not deserve to ask in the first place.

This book changes that.

In Rejection Free, bestselling author Scott Allan delivers a three-part system built on two decades of personal experience. Part one teaches you to choose yourself first, dismantling the rejection persona and the old voices keeping you trapped. Part two gives you the practical tools to ask for anything you want, without shame or hesitation. Part three uses desensitization, the same technique used in behavioral therapy, to condition your mind to handle rejection without flinching.

This is not motivation. It is a system.

Inside, you will learn how to:

• Debunk the lies of rejection you have been carrying since childhood
• Defeat your rejection persona and stop letting self-doubt make your decisions
• Break free from predictable, fear-driven choices that keep you stuck
• Master the art of asking for raises, dates, help, and anything else you want
• Overcome the fear of hearing NO and turn it into fuel for forward action
• Desensitize yourself to rejection using a proven conditioning process
• End love dependency and conditional approval-seeking in relationships
• Choose yourself first, in every situation, without guilt or apology

Scott Allan wrote this book from the inside, as someone who lived for decades under the weight of a rejection persona, afraid to ask, afraid to be seen, afraid to fail. Every strategy was road-tested in his own life before it made it onto the page.

Whether you are afraid to ask for a raise, paralyzed in relationships, or exhausted from a life of settling, Rejection Free gives you the three-part system to choose yourself, ask for what you want, and finally break free.

Book 2 of the Rejection Free for Life Series

Edition details

• Publisher: Scott Allan Bowes
• Publication date: 2020
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 1989599001
• ISBN 13: 9781989599006
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 184