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When Your Parent Needs a Parent: A Practical Guide for Adult Children: From the First Crisis to Everyday Care - Softcover

Carrington, William

 
9798175037884: When Your Parent Needs a Parent: A Practical Guide for Adult Children: From the First Crisis to Everyday Care

Synopsis

Your parent can no longer manage alone. What do you do first?

A fall. A hospital call. A visit that reveals missed meals and unopened bills. Suddenly, you are arranging care, answering questions, and wondering how this will fit around your job and family.

Start with tonight. Then make a plan for what comes next.

When Your Parent Needs a Parent helps adult children work through the first crisis and the everyday decisions that follow—with practical steps, realistic conversations, and respect for their parent's wishes.

Inside, you will find help with the questions that cannot wait:

  • What needs to happen in the first 72 hours? Gather essential information, prepare for hospital discharge, and identify gaps in care before everyone goes home.

  • Who will actually be there? Turn offers from siblings and friends into specific commitments, with a fourteen-night coverage grid and clear handoffs.

  • What if my parent refuses help? Approach difficult conversations, notice changes in everyday abilities and memory, and prepare useful questions for professionals.

  • Is help at home enough? Compare care options, bring costs and paperwork into view, and recognize when the current arrangement needs to change.

  • How do I keep my own life from falling apart? Make room for work, children, your partner, and sleep—and identify when more support is needed.

Includes 15 practical planning tools, from the first-72-hours worksheet to a backup plan for when the main caregiver is unavailable. A situation finder helps you go straight to today's problem; a subject index helps you return when the situation changes.

Written for US families, the guide also covers changing care needs, serious illness, and the practical arrangements surrounding a parent's death.

You do not need every answer today. You need a clear next step—and a plan that includes both of you.

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