No One To Call: How to Break the Friendship Recession and Build Real Friends as an Adult - Softcover

Chen, Weiming

 
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Synopsis

Most people don’t realise how quietly distance builds. You keep up with work, reply when you can, cancel when you’re tired, and tell yourself it’s just a busy season. Then something small happens — good or bad — and you notice there isn’t anyone you’d naturally reach for. Not because you don’t know people, but because nothing feels close anymore.

No One To Call is about that slow drift, and what it takes to undo it. It’s a practical, honest look at how adult friendship actually forms now — not in theory, not in motivational slogans, but in the real conditions of modern life. No forced extroversion. No personality makeovers. No endless social plans you can’t sustain.

The book breaks down why friendship used to happen without effort, why it doesn’t now, and what still works. You’ll see how small habits create closeness, how to rebuild connection without feeling needy or performative, and how to keep relationships steady even when life gets uneven. There are stories, examples, and simple structures you can actually use — the kind that fit into a real week, not an ideal one.

The aim isn’t to overhaul your entire social world. It’s to rebuild a few relationships that feel solid enough to matter.

If you want to start small, the book shows you how: one person, one step, one moment of reaching out that doesn’t feel like a performance.

Because most of the time, the hardest part isn’t the conversation. It’s deciding to stop waiting for closeness to happen on its own.

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