The Law of Separation: How to Be in the World Without Losing Yourself - Softcover

Kumar, Abhay

Softcover

ISBN 13: 9798244050981

Publisher: Independently published, 2026

Synopsis

You are not suffering because of life.
You are suffering because you are fused with it.

The Law of Separation is a quiet but uncompromising exploration of why human beings feel exhausted, anxious, and fragmented—even when their lives appear “successful.” It reveals a hidden mechanism at the root of modern suffering: unconscious identification with thoughts, emotions, roles, outcomes, and other people.

Most people live merged with their experiences. When success fades, they collapse. When relationships shift, they fragment. When identity is threatened, they suffer. This book offers a different way—not withdrawal, not numbness, not detachment—but engagement without entanglement.

Drawing from psychology, philosophy, and direct observation of the mind, The Law of Separation explains:

• Why attachment feels necessary yet slowly destroys inner stability

• How thoughts and emotions turn into identity without your awareness

• Why achievement, love, and validation often lead to emptiness instead of fulfillment

• How to remain fully present in life without losing yourself in it

This is not a motivational book.
It does not offer affirmations, hacks, or shortcuts.
It is a map—clear, precise, and unsentimental—showing how attachment forms and how it dissolves.

Inside these pages, you will learn how to:

• Observe thoughts without being ruled by them

• Feel emotions without being consumed by them

• Love without possession

• Pursue goals without being enslaved by outcomes

• Live with clarity instead of constant inner pressure

Separation, as described here, is not coldness.
It is not isolation.
It is the ability to be fully alive without being fragmented by life.

If you are tired of chasing peace through control, validation, or achievement—
If you want clarity more than comfort—
If you are ready to reclaim your inner life—

The Law of Separation is an invitation to return to yourself.

Edition details

• Publisher: Independently published
• Publication date: 2026
• Language: English
• ISBN 13: 9798244050981
• Binding: Paperback
• Number of pages: 52