Drop the Rope in Your Tug-of-War with Anger
If you've tried to control problem anger before with little success, this book offers you a fundamentally new approach and new hope. Instead of struggling even harder to manage or eliminate your anger, you can stop anger feelings from determining who you are and how you live your life. Based on a revolutionary psychological approach called acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), the techniques in ACT on Life Not on Anger can help you let go of anger and start living your life to the fullest.
Your path begins as you learn to accept your angry feelings as they occur, without judging or trying to manage them. Then, using techniques based in mindfulness practice, you'll discover how to observe your feelings of anger without acting on them. Value-identification exercises help you figure out what truly matters to you so that you can commit to short- and long-term goals that turn your values into reality. In the process, anger will lose power over your life-and, amazingly, you'll gain control over your life by simply letting go of your angry feelings.
Georg H. Eifert, Ph.D., is professor and chair of the department of psychology at Chapman University in Orange, California, and author of The Anorexia Workbook. He lives in Los Angeles, California.
Matthew McKay, Ph.D., is a psychologist and author of numerous books including When Anger Hurts, The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook, Thoughts and Feelings, Messages, and Self-Esteem. He lives in Berkeley, California.
John P. Forsyth, Ph.D., is associate professor and director of the Anxiety Disorders Research Program in the Department of Psychology at the University at Albany, State University of New York. He lives in Albany, New York.