The Ava Dating Standards Guide

The Ava Dating Standards Guide

How to Stop Settling, Spot Real Effort & Choose Better
By Ava Monroe The Ava Edit

Dating gets a lot easier when you stop asking, “Do they like me?” and start asking, “Do I actually like what I’m receiving?”

The Ava Dating Standards Guide is a practical, honest guide for women who are tired of mixed signals, inconsistent effort, confusing situationships, and lowering their standards just to keep someone interested.

This book helps you recognize the difference between attention and intention, chemistry and compatibility, words and real effort.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

- Identify your non-negotiables before emotions take over
- Recognize consistency, effort, and emotional availability
- Spot common red flags without making excuses for them
- Stop chasing clarity from people whose behavior is already giving you an answer
- Understand the difference between potential and reality
- Set healthier dating boundaries without feeling guilty
- Stop over-investing too early
- Pay attention to how someone makes you feel over time, not just during the exciting beginning
- Walk away from situations that require you to abandon your standards
- Date from self-respect instead of fear of being alone
- Choose relationships that feel mutual, secure, and intentional

This isn’t about creating an impossible checklist or expecting perfection.

It’s about knowing what healthy effort looks like, understanding what you deserve, and becoming more selective about who gets access to your time, energy, and heart.

You don’t need to convince the right person to show up for you.

You need to become confident enough to notice when someone isn’t.

Stop settling. Notice the effort. Choose better.

Digital Product: Instant-download ebook.
Paperback also Available