BEFORE YOU SWIPE RIGHT: What History, Society, and Dating Apps Don’t Want You to Know About Love

If you are swiping on Dating apps, this book is for you!

If you are struggling to find love, this book is for you!

If you are feeling lonely around loved ones, this book is for you!

This isn’t just another book about Dating—it’s a wake-up call for a generation drowning in options but starving for meaningful human bonds.

In an age where dating apps gamify love, social media reduces self-worth to likes, and art sells us dramatic illusions of romance, finding genuine friendship or lasting love feels harder than ever. We swipe, scroll, and filter our way through people—only to end up lonelier, more confused, and less connected than before.

This book rips the mask off modern relationships, revealing how technology, social movements, and media have rewired how we choose, value, and connect with others. You’ll discover why “impression” has replaced “expression” in love, how dating apps manipulate desire, and why real connection can’t be found in a dopamine-fuelled feed.

Through raw insights, cultural analysis, and the author’s experience and observation from building Bumpedin - The Socialising App—a platform designed to slow down and deepen human connection—Before You Swipe Right gives you the tools to cut through the noise, unlearn toxic patterns, and rediscover what truly matters in friendship, love, and life.