Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage

He doesn’t listen to me…I don’t understand her…Why do we repeat the same fight?

“Becoming Us helps you understand your spouse via the lens of faith and the Enneagram.”
Ian Morgan Cron, Enneagram expert and author of The Road Back to You

Do you ever feel baffled by the person sleeping beside you? What if your spouse came with an instruction manual? Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of Your Enneagram Coach, have helped over 250,000 people discover their unique personality type and apply that knowledge to their relationships.

Becoming Us pulls back the curtain on marriage and weaves the Enneagram through the lense of the Gospel to reveal why you and your spouse behave in different ways. Beth and Jeff will explain how you can:

Answer the question, “What is my spouse thinking?”

Defuse conflict before it starts, especially the same old arguments

Stop assuming each other’s motives and make communication work

Affirm each other in meaningful ways that matter

Enjoy your spouse all over again, even if you’ve loved each other for years

Whether you are preparing for marriage or celebrating a 50th anniversary, Becoming Us will revolutionize the way you view yourself and your spouse. Let Beth and Jeff guide you through the Enneagram and transform your marriage into the powerful relationship that God intended.

Yes, you really will understand your spouse better after you read this book.

Enneagram author, speaker, and coach Beth McCord is the founder and lead content creator of Your Enneagram Coach, a community designed to be a safe place for individuals to explore the Enneagram. With years of experience and a passion for coming alongside individuals, couples, and groups, Beth is leading the way in simplifying the deep truths of the Enneagram from a Biblical perspective. Her mission is to make personal awareness and growth accessible for everyone, anywhere, so they can experience health and transformation in every area of their lives.

Pastor Jeff McCord has led and served several churches and organizations for more than 20 years. He has a Masters of Divinity as well as multiple certifications in pastoral counseling, family and church mediations, and Gospel coaching. The Enneagram transformed Jeff’s life, family and ministry, leading him to co-found Your Enneagram Coach with his wife, Beth McCord. Providing Enneagram resources to individuals, couples, and groups, their mission is to help people see themselves with astonishing clarity, so they can break free from limiting patterns and experience freedom in Christ.