Beyond Messy Relationships : Divine Invitations to Your Authentic Self

Beyond Messy Relationships: Divine Invitations to Your Authentic Self

. . . is not only an intense and dramatic memoir. It is a mixture of psychological wisdom and spiritual inspiration.

Judy K. Herman brings hope through her formula of breathing in fresh A.I.R. The acronym for Awareness, Intentionality, and Risks of growth. 

Beyond Messy Relationships helps you learn to forgive and remember. You'll see that relationships are mirrors to your soul. They show us our blind spots giving us the ability to courageously grow and grow up. Emotions are valuable messengers designed to move and flow. 

Topics you'll discover include the messes beyond: 

• post-divorce issues
• single parenting and remarriage
• imposter syndrome
• betrayal and recovery

You'll learn to identify your own relationship dances (patterns) outlined in Beyond Messy Relationships. More importantly, you'll be able to co-create a different dance for a more resilient and growing relationship. 

• Discover you're not alone as you resonate with the messy relationships of a psychotherapist along with valuable life-lessons.
• Learn a simple formula breathing fresh A.I.R. to experience freedom from guilt and regret.
• Gain insights that inspire positive changes that last.
• Become shame resilient.
• Discover your true self and find joy beyond your messy relationships.

Since the book was released in September of 2019, there is now a different epilogue that became catalysts for more resources. 

To find out more about the story Beyond Messy Relationships get Judy's second book, Relationships With Purpose and tune into her podcast Better Relationships, Better Life. The books and podcast are great supplements to your own therapy if you are receiving psychotherapy. Both are also great book club discussions. Ask for the resource "Questions to Ponder."  

Judy has a growing youtube channel with teaching videos and interviews to help you with gain relationship strategies, tips and tools. 

Judy K. Herman, LPC-MHSP is a licensed professional counselor and mental health service provider and a National Certified Counselor. Specializing in relationships, she helps counselors create connections beyond conflict in their crucial relationships so they can serve their clients with vibrant authenticity. She has received training from world-renown marriage experts. She and her husband Joe met through ballroom dancing and enjoy spending time with grandchildren. Although her formative years were spent in Champaign, Illinois, Judy graduated from Bryan College in Dayton, Tennessee, earned two Master's degrees, one from Richmont University in Chattanooga, TN and the other from Liberty University. She lives in the Greater Chattanooga area. Her counseling practice is in Chattanooga, TN.