Bisexuality the Basics :: Your Q&A Guide to Coming Out, Dating, Parenting and Beyond

My partner doesn't believe I'm bisexual, what should I do?

How should I approach sex with someone of a different gender for the first time?

Can I reconcile being bisexual with wanting a biological child?

Identifying as bisexual can be a pretty confusing experience - navigating experimentation versus orientation, at times presenting as a straight-passing member of a queer community, at other times having people discredit your attraction to multiple genders. Lewis Oakley, creator of the Ask A Bi Dad column, knows every trick in the book - and he's here to answer your most burning questions...

Warm, chatty, wise and startlingly honest - this is your new bi bible.

Lewis Oakley is one of the leading bisexual activists in the UK. He appeared on the 2021 Pride Power List and has been shortlisted for both the PinkNews Award for Campaigner of the Year and the Outstanding Contribution to LGBT+ Life Award at the British LGBT+ Awards.
He regularly writes for major publications including the Independent, Daily Mail, Telegraph, Metro, Huffington Post, Attitude, Gay Times and PinkNews and has appeared across radio, TV and podcasts. He also writes a bi-weekly column for Bi.org and is the host of the Bisexual Brunch podcast.