Blended and Redeemed: The Go-To Field Guide for the Modern Stepfa

THE DIVORCE RATE FOR BLENDED FAMILIES IS 70%.BUT WHEN YOU DO IT GOD’S WAY, YOU HAVE A 100% CHANCE OF SUCCESS! Couples in blended―or “step”―families often feel misunderstood, even in the church. They struggle with complicated child behavioral issues, battle pitched custody fights, and difficulty finding unity in co-parenting. Emotions such as guilt, shame, fear, or isolation threaten to overwhelm them. Now is the time for these families to feel heard, helped, and healed.In Blended and Redeemed, blended family experts, coaches, and therapists Scott and Vanessa Martindale go where few dare to venture―into the minefield of today’s blended families. You will learn how to: -Defend your new marriage from old wounds and the enemy’s schemes -Turn strangers into siblings through intentional and intelligent blending -Work and communicate effectively with your ex-spouse as co-parents -Navigate the fiery furnace of custody litigation -Bring glory to God and inform the church about your messy and beautifully unique blended family Designed for pastors, church leaders, individuals or group studies, Blended and Redeemed will become your new go-to field guide for the modern stepfamily!

Scott and his wife, Vanessa, have been married over 8 years and founded Blended Kingdom Families, a ministry that is committed to breaking the generational cycle of divorce, equipping marriages, and educating blended families with resources and practical skills through the truth of God's word. Scott and Vanessa are a blended family with four sons and four golden retrievers and live in Southlake, TX.

Vanessa is a wife and mother as well as a passionate lover of Jesus, His Word, and His people. A registered nurse for more than five years, she has a heart to serve those in their most vulnerable seasons of life. Birthed out of a desire to see God work in marriages and families, Vanessa is pursuing a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at The King’s University. She is called to help people discover their Kingdom purpose and find true freedom through deeper intimacy with Jesus. Vanessa loves being a wife to Scott and a mom to her boys. Watching her boys’ sporting games, decorating for every holiday, and dancing for Jesus are her favorite pastimes!