Body Count: Biblical Solutions To Deal With Your Partner’s Promiscuous Past

Does body count matter?

We live in a hyper-sexualized world where body count is either praised or shamed. No matter where you stand on the pendulum, God designed sex to be sacred and within the bounds of marriage. But our culture has both commonized and cheapened its value and yet, it's hard for one to accept that the person they are with may have an extensive sexual history.

So what do you do when you find out the person you're with has a high body count? To say, "Accept it and move on in the name of love," is easier said than done, and that's why this book holds much value. As a young adult, when I pictured who my wife would be, I never imagined an ex-adult film actress. But to my surprise, that's who I ended up with, a former adult film star with a very high body count.

In Body Count, you'll learn how to overcome your partner's past by discovering how to:

• Create a thriving relationship despite their past

• Turn off the mental movies

• Heal from triggers

• Overcome jealousy and live confidently

• Receive God's grace so you can give God's grace

In Body Count, you'll gain a fresh perspective that will change your view of your partner's past and their body count. You'll learn to first look through the lens of grace and not give up on the one you love just because they have a past. This book will help you understand their past does not dictate their future with you. A thriving relationship is possible and attainable. God wants to give you the relationship/marriage you desire, and I want to help you get there. Body Count will provide you with the tools you need to overcome your partner's past.

Richard De La Mora is a husband, father, pastor, and co-founder of LoveAlwaysMinistries.com, a ministry dedicated to helping people walk in their calling by discovering God's love and leading a victorious life.