Bulletproof & Unbreakable Marriage: A Marriage That Celebrates Your Uniqueness and Overcomes Life's Challenges

Marriage isn’t built in the good times. It’s battle-tested in the storms—and bulletproofed in the trenches.

After 30 years of real-life marriage with all its highs, heartbreaks, and holy ground moments, Bulletproof & Unbreakable Marriage is my honest, straight-talking, Christ-centered guide for couples who want more than a nice marriage. They want a love that can take a hit—and stand strong.

Holly and I have walked through cancer, Parkinson’s, loss, ministry burnout, business pressure, and cross-country moves. We’ve lived in tiny apartments and custom homes. We’ve laughed hard and cried harder. Through it all, one truth remains: when God is at the center, marriage can survive anything. Not just survive—thrive.

This book is for couples at every stage—whether you’re newly married, in a rough patch, or simply wanting to go deeper. It’s full of hard-earned wisdom, practical strategies, personal stories, humor, and biblical truths that will encourage and equip you for the journey.

Inside, You’ll Learn How To:
• Build trust that holds up under pressure
• Protect individuality while fighting for unity
• Practice mutual submission (yes, both of you)
• Set goals, dream big, and fail forward together
• Anchor your marriage in God through prayer, the Word, and community

This isn’t a theory book. It’s boots-on-the-ground, coffee-at-the-kitchen-table, “we’ve been there too” kind of help. If you’re tired of surface-level advice and ready to do the work of forging a love that’s both bulletproof and unbreakable, this is your next read.

Whether you’re in year one or year thirty, there’s hope. There’s healing. And there’s a better rhythm waiting for you and your spouse.

Let’s make your marriage stronger than the struggle.