The CARE Method: Based on the Risk-Need-Responsivity Model, a Domestic Violence Curriculum for Male Clients

Empower change. Transform lives.

The CARE Method offers a groundbreaking approach to addressing domestic violence, tailored specifically for men. Drawing from years of experience and research, Nil Buckley presents a comprehensive curriculum rooted in evidence based practices designed to foster meaningful transformation and reduce repeat behaviors. This workbook is a vital resource for counselors, therapists, and anyone committed to breaking the cycle of violence.
Discover the core principles:

• Risk-need-responsivity (RNR) model: Target interventions to high-risk individuals, address criminogenic needs, and tailor treatment to individual learning styles.
• Domestic violence: Explore the dynamics and root causes of intimate partner violence.
• Attachment style: Learn how attachment style impacts relationships.
• Intergenerational trauma: Delve into the impacts of trauma passed through generations and how to heal from it.

This workbook provides the tools needed for personal growth and change through practical exercises and reflective activities. In it, clients learn how to enhance their empathy, accountability, and self-awareness, equipping them with insights into creating healthier relationships and breaking free from abusive patterns. The CARE Method empowers clients to rebuild their lives and relationships, fostering a deep understanding of the behaviors and choices that lead to lasting transformation.

“The CARE method was a life-changing experience, providing invaluable insight into my behaviors and triggers. The curriculum’s comprehensive approach and supportive group setting helped me gain confidence and understand myself better. This method has given me the tools to maintain my happiness and sobriety.”

“When I found this curriculum, I was addicted, angry, and hopeless. In one year, it transformed my life, helping me overcome my struggles with dignity and respect. Today, I’m a better father and person, with self-esteem, confidence, and a renewed ability to face life’s challenges. This curriculum gave me the tools to rebuild my life, and for that, I am forever grateful.”

Silver Medal Winner of the 2025 North American Book Awards in Nonfiction: Health/Wellness.

Eronilde “Nil” Buckley, MA, LPC, LAC, DVCS, NCC, ACS is a dedicated mental health counselor and advocate who has worked extensively with individuals involved in the criminal justice system. Her passion for addressing the root causes of domestic violence and her commitment to compassionate counseling have led to the creation of the CARE Method. Through this curriculum, Nil Buckley aims to provide offenders with the tools they need to rebuild their lives and relationships.

Eronilde "Nil" Buckley, MA, LAC, LPC, DVCS, NCC, ACS, is a dedicated mental health counselor and advocate who has worked extensively with individuals involved in the criminal justice system. Her passion for addressing the root causes of domestic violence and her commitment to compassionate counseling have led to the creation of the CARE Method. Through this curriculum, Nil Buckley aims to provide offenders with the tools they need to rebuild their lives and relationships.