Caring with Dignity: A Caregiver's Guide to Incontinence (Paperback)

Are you caring for a loved one who’s having accidents, leaking, or struggling with bladder or bowel control? Millions of families face the daily challenges of incontinence, whether it’s an aging parent, a spouse, or a child with special needs. Often overlooked and misunderstood, incontinence can be one of the most stressful and isolating parts of caregiving. In fact, it is frequently the tipping point for nursing home admission for older adults—not because it’s untreatable, but because family caregivers simply don’t have the tools or support to manage it confidently at home.

Caring with Dignity is here to change that.

Written by experienced nurse and clinical educator Michele Mongillo, this empowering guide offers compassionate, practical, and easy-to-understand advice for navigating incontinence care. No medical background needed, just real-life tips.

Inside, you’ll find:

• Ways to help your loved one stay comfortable and confident at home and on the go

• Easy-to-follow steps for handling leaks, accidents, and bathroom routines

• Practical advice for daily living, including choosing the right products, nutrition, fall prevention, traveling with incontinence and memory challenges

• Special guidance for caring for children with incontinence beyond potty training

• Tips for keeping skin healthy and preventing skin alterations

• Support for caregivers: how to cope, where to find support, and advice for navigating difficult conversations

Grounded in real-life examples and backed by clinical expertise, Caring with Dignity was written to help caregivers feel more confident, less alone, and better prepared to provide care with dignity. It’s also a valuable resource for professional caregivers and healthcare providers who want to deepen their understanding of incontinence care, both at work and at home.

Caring with Dignity offers insight, empathy, and tools that may help you keep your loved one home longer.

Caregiving is a journey—and you don’t have to walk it alone. With the right support and resources, you can feel confident and empowered every step of the way.

Throughout her career spanning more than three decades, Michele Mongillo has worked in a variety of settings, including hospitals, rehabilitation centers, the homes of patients, and skilled nursing facilities (nursing homes). In her current role at First Quality, Michele provides clinical expertise for new product and service development while continuing her lifelong passion for educating caregivers on incontinence care. Her experience over the years includes the development of educational programs for nurses, certified nurse aides, case managers, and individuals with a variety of health issues, including incontinence. In addition, she worked with nursing students in an adjunct faculty role at the University of North Carolina Chapel Hill School of Nursing and is a previous guest lecturer at the Pennsylvania College of Technology Nursing program.