“An inspiring guide to recognizing and transforming the inner conversations that shape our lives.” — Kirkus Reviews
What if the life you’re living is being shaped by a conversation in your mind—one you didn’t even realize was there?
You Can Choose Your Life reveals how the internal dialogue running beneath your awareness is shaping your emotions, decisions, and sense of what’s possible.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, dissatisfied, or certain that more is possible, this book helps you see what’s been there all along—and how to change it.
Inside, you’ll discover:
- How to recognize the hidden conversations limiting your life
- How to interrupt automatic patterns in real time
- Practical tools to shift your thinking and expand what’s possible
- A deeper understanding of how perception shapes your experience
This isn’t about positive thinking.
It’s about seeing clearly—so you’re no longer run by the conversation in your mind.
Because when you change the conversation, you can change your life.
Abramson tells a powerful and eye-opening story that sets this book apart from other self-improvement titles. Infused with humility and self-awareness, his expertise feels hard-won, credible, and real. A poignant and vivid personal story designed to help others recognize their mental roadblocks.
-Kirkus Review
You Can Choose Your Life is a thoughtful, kind, real guide that will introduce you to how to discover your own freedom.
-Tama Kieves, Best-selling author of Thriving Through Uncertainity
I highly recommend You Can Choose Your Life as a must on your reading list. Assertively yet gently, Abramson invites you to bring down barriers that you may have set up for yourself that keep you from living life as you truly wish to live it.
-Stephen Eric Levine, Author of A Storm Chaser's Journey to Paradise
It's apparent the author has put heart and soul into this book, both a personal and spiritual reflection on his life and how choice can make all the difference.
-Rev. Dr. Daniel Kanter, Senior Minister of First Unitarian Church of Dallas
Abramson has presented an approach that allows us to explore for ourselves some of the biggest questions that stand in the way of us having a life we want.
-Alice V. Ruffel, PsyD, Clinical Psychologist
If you choose to read this book, you may discover what is holding you back in life, and what you can do to make your life more fulfilling.
-Steven Land Taylor, Author of Row, Row, Row Your Boat: A Guide for Living Life in the Divine Flow