She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." But in the pages of this must-read sex guide, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun, informative, and full of practical sex advice, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

This essential guide for men breaks down the art of female pleasure:

• A New Philosophy of Sex: Discover why author and sex therapist Ian Kerner believes oral sex shouldn’t be foreplay, but “coreplay”—the center of mutual satisfaction.
• Guide to Cunnilingus: Learn dozens of tried-and-true techniques, moving beyond guesswork to master the art of pleasuring a woman every time.
• Understanding Female Anatomy: An easy-to-read breakdown of the clitoris, the G-spot, and the keys to the female orgasm, written to make you an expert.
• Better Sex Life: Move past performance anxiety and “ill-cliteracy” with a fun, informative, and shame-free approach to ensuring she comes first.

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including She Comes First, which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He contributes regularly to CNN on topics related to sex and relationships and  is the co-founder of the Sex Therapy Program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of the oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities in New York City.