We Have So Much In Common (Paperback or Softback)

For readers of Glennon Doyle and Nora McInerny, this is a tender, sincere, and emotionally grounded story about healing, reconnection, and finally making peace with your own story.

What if the truth you've been hiding is the key to becoming who you really are?

For thirty years, Erin Gorrie kept a secret that shaped everything-her choices, her identity, and the weight she carried in silence. Telling the truth nearly broke her. But it's also what saved her.

In this genuine and subtly powerful memoir, Erin traces the slow unraveling of a life built on performance, perfection, and self-erasure. From modeling in L.A. to flying around the world as a flight attendant, from motherhood and marriage to the raw edges of policing and PTSD, she reveals how shame and silence took root-and how she learned to let them go.

With steady insight, a lightness that only hindsight can bring, and the hard-won wisdom of someone who has lived every word she writes, We Have So Much In Common is more than a personal story. It's a mirror. A reminder that beneath the differences in our stories, we're all navigating with belonging, identity, and the courage to tell the truth. Erin's journey is deeply her own-and yet, somehow, it's ours too.