FOR OVER THREE DECADES, THE ESTABLISHED HANDBOOK ON RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN EQUALS. Time tested by: COMMITTED COUPLES who’ve decided to hang in and “work it out. COUPLES who want to transform struggle into teamwork. DIVORCED PEOPLE who want to do it better this time. LGBTQ PEOPLE who seek a model for being a couple. YOUNG PEOPLE whose parents showed them how not to be a couple. SINGLE PEOPLE seeking loving intimacy as equals
"Being a couple yet free is our next challenge on the evolutionary ladder. This book successfully helps us unravel the myths that block that achievement. It does so with warmth, readability, and balance. It recreates everyday problems and paints the path to their solution." Warren Farrell, Ph.D., author of
Why Men Are the Way They Are.
For over two decades, this book has been recognized as the established handbook on relationships between equals. It introduced the concept: cooperation instead of compromise or competition. It gives clear instructions to show you how to be true to yourself and true to your partner at the same time.
Thoroughly revised and expanded, this new edition is written as a manual and includes fresh and new step-by-step instructions and guidelines to create a mutually supportive partnership allowing each individual to be equal in a relationship. It introduces the Negotiation Tree, an ingenious tool that can help any couple turn a struggle or fight into a cooperative problem-solving session.
The book is designed especially for:
- People who seek a model for equal partnership.
- Couples who want to transform struggle into teamwork.
- Couples who are married, cohabiting, or dating.
- Couples who are in a traditional or alternative relationship.
How to Be a Couple and Still Be Free is the perfect tool for designing and creating a relationship unique to your individual personalities and situation. With it, any couple can learn to work together to create a loving, sustainable, healthy, and equal partnership that you will treasure.