Couples In Crisis (Paperback or Softback)

Love is not only about finding the right person. It's about building the right relationship.

By the time most couples reach a therapist's office they are out of moves. They have ignored their problems for too long and are now being consumed by them. Too often couples are met by well-meaning professionals who jump straight into problem solving, which is exactly the wrong place to start.

The Couples in Crisis framework is built on a counterintuitive truth: A couple must earn the right to work on their problems. That earning happens in four stages - Decide/Safe/Connect/Solve. Each stage builds a foundation for the next. Along the way couples discover that every interaction with their partner is either healing or harming, that speaking truthfully with kindness is a skill worth mastering, and that connection is not what solves their problems, it is what makes solving their problems finally possible.

Happy Couples are relationships where two people keep learning how to bring more love to each other.