A Couple's First Ten Years: A Story of Love, Faith and Courage—Even When the Vows Are Tested

Real Stories. Biblical Wisdom. A Practical Roadmap for a Thriving Marriage

“It is real, raw, and beautifully imperfect.”
— Praise Fowowe, Premium Family Life Strategist

Every vow sounds beautiful at the altar.
But what happens when real life shows up and tests every promise you made?

In A Couple’s First Ten Years, David and Ebun Haastrup offer a faith-based guide for couples navigating one of the most formative seasons of their marriage. Drawing from their own journey, they blend real-life stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools to help couples build a strong, connected, and resilient marriage in the early years and beyond.

From the sweetness of early love to the weight of financial strain, from an international relocation and seasons of transition to moments of deep reconnection, this book speaks honestly to the pressures couples often face behind closed doors. More than a collection of stories, A Couple’s First Ten Years becomes a practical roadmap for navigating marriage with intention—long after the honeymoon feelings fade.

Whether you’re feeling disconnected or overwhelmed, seeking a practical, Christ-centered approach to marriage, or walking alongside couples as a pastor, counselor, or mentor, this book is for you.

Inside, you’ll discover:

• Inspiring real-life stories that remind you you’re not alone
• Practical tools to strengthen communication, navigate conflict with grace, and nurture intimacy in everyday moments
• A 7-day marriage devotional with journal prompts, daily prayers, and Courageous Moves to help you grow spiritually and deepen your connection
• Faith-rooted encouragement to empower you to build a resilient marriage through every season

“This book is both insightful and practical. Whether you’re newly married or decades into your relationship, this book will resonate with you.”
Dr. Francis A. Tella, Pastor

“It isn’t theory; it’s a companion for real marriages.”
Joyce Ngugi-Wiebe, MAMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist

Build a stronger, more connected marriage—starting today.
Get your copy of A Couple’s First Ten Years and take the next courageous step toward a marriage that not only thrives now, but stands the test of time.