The Deception and Betrayal Caused by a Cheating Spouse

New relationships, marriages, and courtships are usually fun andexciting until something goes wrong.Being personally violated by a loved one is one of the deepest wounds tobe cut with. You believe something like this will never happen to you untilit does. Please learn that if you are the individual who has been violated,you did nothing wrong.When an affair develops those involved may use excuses and untruths tovalidate their actions. Also, if exposed or confronted some may not wantto be held accountable for their behavior or pay any consequences. This isnot in every case that is why I am saying only some.Violated relationships can either dissolve permanently or can mendover time. For those that mend it takes a lot of time, patience andunderstanding. Broken trust is the hardest aspect to earn again.A very important lesson I am hoping to teach my readers is if you are in arelationship with someone and are tempted to be with someone else, youend the relationship you are currently in and then move on. You have noright to cheat and hurt another human being.

Stephenie Pompano is a graduate of Southern Connecticut State University (1994), having earned a bachelor of science degree in political science. A 1996 graduate of the Connecticut Business Institute, she earned a certificate in paralegal studies. She currently resides in East Haven, Connecticut, with her family and two-year-old son.