The Deception and Betrayal Caused by a Cheating Spouse

New relationships, marriages, and courtships are usually fun and
exciting until something goes wrong.
Being personally violated by a loved one is one of the deepest wounds to
be cut with. You believe something like this will never happen to you until
it does. Please learn that if you are the individual who has been violated,
you did nothing wrong.
When an affair develops those involved may use excuses and untruths to
validate their actions. Also, if exposed or confronted some may not want
to be held accountable for their behavior or pay any consequences. This is
not in every case that is why I am saying only some.
Violated relationships can either dissolve permanently or can mend
over time. For those that mend it takes a lot of time, patience and
understanding. Broken trust is the hardest aspect to earn again.
A very important lesson I am hoping to teach my readers is if you are in a
relationship with someone and are tempted to be with someone else, you
end the relationship you are currently in and then move on. You have no
right to cheat and hurt another human being.

Stephenie Pompano is a graduate of Southern Connecticut State University (1994), having earned a bachelor of science degree in political science. A 1996 graduate of the Connecticut Business Institute, she earned a certificate in paralegal studies. She currently resides in East Haven, Connecticut, with her family and two-year-old son.