In My Father's Arms: A True Story of Incest (Living Out: Gay and Lesbian Autobiog) (Living Out: Gay and Lesbian Autobiographies)

Milly, Walter de

ISBN 10: 0299165140 / ISBN 13: 9780299165147

Published by University of Wisconsin Press, 2012

About this Item

Originally published in 1999 as In my father's arms: a true story of incest. Now includes a foreword by Richard B. Gartner and a preface by the author. Num Pages: 152 pages. BIC Classification: BM; VFJ; VFV. Category: (G) General (US: Trade). Dimension: 228 x 150 x 6. Weight in Grams: 224. . 2012. Paperback. . . . . Books ship from the US and Ireland.

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Bibliographic Details

• Title: In My Father's Arms: A True Story of Incest (Living Out: Gay and Lesbian Autobiog) (Living Out: Gay and Lesbian Autobiographies)
• Publisher: University of Wisconsin Press
• Publication Date: 2012
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0299165140
• ISBN 13: 9780299165147
• Binding: Soft cover
• Condition: New

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Synopsis

The TV-perfect family of Walter de Milly III was like many others in the American South of the 1950s―seemingly close-knit, solidly respectable, and active in the community.

Tragically, Walter's deeply troubled father would launch his family on a perilous journey into darkness. To the outside world, this man is a prominent businessman, a dignified Presbyterian, and a faithful husband; to Walter, he is an overwhelming, handsome monster. Whenever the two are together, young Walter becomes a sexual plaything for his father; father and son outings are turned into soul-obliterating nightmares.

Walter eventually becomes a successful businessman only to be stricken by another catastrophe: his father, at the age of seventy, is caught molesting a young boy. Walter is asked to confront his father. Walter convenes his family, and in a private conference with a psychiatrist, the father agrees to be surgically castrated.

De Milly's portraits of his relationships with his father and mother, and the confrontation that leads to his father's bizarre and irreversible voluntary "cure," are certain to be remembered long after the reader has set aside this powerful contribution to the literature of incest survival.

About the Author

Walter A. de Milly III lives in Key West, Florida. He has been a victim advocate at a domestic abuse shelter, served on the board of the national organization MaleSurvivor, and worked with the UNESCO Committee on the Rights of the Child.